Coley Chronicles: All Things Real w/ Vetta

At the end of last year, when The Lord spoke to me about no mentorship, no mentoring, no coaching and that my time would have to belong to me…I was not to disappointed. I even had to back out of assisting another Prophet teach a Prophetic class.

Being that my husband was nearing completion of the last of the townhouse repairs as a result of Hurricane Michael my mind said yes, we are about to start our travels again. My little heart was thrilled. I can remember pulling out our passports as well…

On today, my husband had a MRI done on his brain to check for any cancer.

Anything concerning the brain makes one think…so after I said a prayer for him, I was thinking on The Goodness of God.

He Knows…and He Answers…and He goes before us. Oftentimes, so far ahead of us that it’s almost scary. It can also make the mind wander.

But I am thankful for an ear to hear…thankful that I listen to my spirit and not the opinions of others. Thankful that I am obedient to what I feel in my spirit and what I trust in my heart.

On last year, God spoke to me about creating a product for a Sister in Christ for her business…within hours I received a phone call that was meant to distract me from my assignment. It Did Not!!!

Then again this year, within hours of taking my husband to the ER where he was first diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer…I received yet another call from the same individual…about the same nonsense concerning the same sister in Christ.

Yet another failed attempt by the enemy to build a wedge between us…relentless and still defeated!

This sister in Christ along with her own sisters are among our intercessors as we go through this process. Believing and trusting that God’s Will be done in my husband’s life…praying for his healing!

I share this with you so that you are mindful of people and understand that they can be on assignment and not even realize it…but you’d better recognize it and make decisions based off of your discernment rather than gossip and slander. Imagine being in need of prayer and you’ve allowed the enemy to cut you off from those who have a passion for prayer…those willing to cry out your name to The Name Above All Names.

We have to know people by their fruit…and we must trust that The Fruit of The Spirit is available to help us bear all our burdens.

On the subject of burdens…

On this evening, I had a difficult but necessary conversation with my husband’s teenager. Oftentimes, my husband speaks to her as if he has the common cold and by weeks end he shall be brand new. When he ends these conversations I often say to him that he must be honest with her; it’s not fair to her to not have all the facts…his reply is that he just tells her he is OK so that she will be ok and not worry. I told him on last week that she’s not grasping the totality of this all and she needs to know and expressed to him that I’d be talking with her soon.

She was so very appreciative for the honesty…she was very expressive and I allowed her to cry as often as needed during our conversation. I also encouraged her to speak positively during their future conversations…speaking life is all that is needed at this point. We also agreed that soon she’d be able to come for a visit and she was thankful. Letting her know that I was out picking up his dinner request and that I’d be sure to have him call her after we finished our dinner.

My husband asked for red beans and rice for dinner and so that’s what he received…I decided on yellow rice and topped the red beans with lots of goodies for crunch, a nice piece of sausage and a side of mustard greens. It was quite delicious. After dinner they had a chance to talk and she made me proud…him as well and I told her so. She said she tried her very best to be uplifting and positive and to be honest that’s all anyone us can do.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

It’s almost midnight and it’s 48 degrees here in the Sunshine State. I know I should be enjoying the weather because soon enough the next complaint will be that it’s too hot to think straight…but I really need to get some things in the ground.

Vetta’s Garden is ready for action! On today, I took out one bag of kitchen scraps to start more compost and tomorrow I’ll do the same. Then the fun will begin…pulling the remainder of the weeds.

My peace and my therapy all in one place and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

On Tuesday, my husband had a very good day. A good appetite, although one of the side effects of food tasting metallic started. He even moved around without his oxygen a little. A long nice shower and a hot soak in the tub with eucalyptus and spearmint. His pain level never got pass 5.

We had talked about taking a ride to sit by the water but it was a very windy day and that wind was cold so we stayed in.

Today wasn’t a great day for him and on this morning I had to reschedule his rehab session due to his pain level but as the day came to an end so did his pain. His appetite got better as well and for dinner we had breakfast…a episode of Carol Burnett and a back rub and he was once again a happy camper.

It’s approaching time for his midnight meds and our midnight snack. I’m prayful that what follows is a peaceful sleep for the both of us.

As well, I’m forever thankful for our intercessors…praying that God continues to cover them as they cover us.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta 🥰

My husband has shared with me that he should have been a trainer for boxers in the ring. Even mentioned one that he was sure that he would have put down lol…but I digress.

I grew up watching boxing and always enjoyed the sport. Not so much any more…there seems to be such a lack of sportsmanship and more antics than anything.

Anywho…

The first round sets the tempo. Used strategically to feel out your opponent…see what you are up against and adjust accordingly.

Over the weekend, we did some prep work through conversation and with prayer!!!

On today, my husband started his first round of chemo and autoimmune therapy. His oldest little beauty queen was still in town and joined us at the appointment. She even went back and sat with him for a while after the session began…he did well, just like the champ he is.

I had thought that he would be exhausted right after but he was not. We returned home and talked for a while and then I went to the market to get him fish for dinner…he enjoyed it best he could as one of the side effects is that things can taste metallic but all is well and his tummy was full. He even moved around a bit with his oxygen off and his pain level never reached 10 on tonight…for that small blessing I am thankful.

I messaged our intercessors and shared the news…the consensus was Hallelujah with love.

It’s sometimes just the small things that make all the difference in your world…

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water 💦

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

I love the sound of rain…it brings calm to me no matter the circumstances and as I sit here on tonight I am thankful for small reminders and even more so for small miracles.

At the beginning of this year, my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. It has been an extremely difficult few months for him…for me…for us and for his children, my son as well. No one that loves you wants to hear the word cancer, yet it is a reality.

I’ve reached out to some powerful prayer warriors and not a day goes by that I don’t feel them waging war on his behalf. This in itself is a blessing that I can not explain.

Last week he went in to have a port placement in order to start chemo and things didn’t go as planned…our plan was to have a nice dinner afterwards being that he had dietary restrictions prior to the surgery and I of course had fasted.

Long story short…my husband was on life support for about 18 hours after the port placement. After the second time of them informing me that he still wasn’t breathing on his own and asking me how they should proceed…I very definitely said to the nurse that if they didn’t get that tube back down his throat that I’d put down theirs and it was understood by all that I was not leaving the hospital without my husband.

Our God was in agreement!!!

We had a heart to heart when we got home…heart to hearts are oftentimes painful because of the unfortunate truths but in the end they are necessary.

We cry, we laugh, we raise our voices and we let it be known that we can get through things together and with God but we must be honest about where we are at all times. Most importantly, we must be willing to forgive…sometimes that means over and over again. Same as The Father forgives us ALL…over and over again, in all of our weaknesses and with all of our flaws.

Earlier tonight after a brief conversation with a young Sister in Christ, I was reminded that my husband has traveled a many rough roads in his lifetime and he has known pain that most will never know…and unfortunately he has not experienced love and acceptance to this same degree. Still he has traveled those rough roads and he has been able to revisit them with me by his side and show me where he came from and what he has survived.

It’s easy to ask the question why…it’s even easier to not understand the answers we receive. This is why prayer is important…so that God can get the judgment out of us, fill us with forgiveness and pour the love in.

From 2019 to 2021 and even into 2022 God was doing a work in me…healing the mind, will and emotions. As well, He healed my body of so many ailments…some of which I had suffered from for over 20 years. My husband was right there with me and right by my side every step of the way…I can imagine that it must have been difficult for him because I know that it was for me…I also am reminded of how difficult I must have been to live with. Healing is a terrible painful thing and those that are around us during this process…those that are close catch holy hell. He caught it all and he did not flinch once.

I’m confident that God strengthened me then for what is now…and that revelation comes only as I write these words.

He never left my side and I won’t be leaving his…I might have to take a ride now and then when he gets on my very last nerve but I’m not going to leave his side either.

Tomorrow will be his first day of treatment and I will be right there by his side.

That’s what love is all about…what marriage is all about…what life is all about.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

This weekend was rough and at the same time beautiful. We must just understand that it’s a balance to this thing called life.

Through it all…I am thankful to see God’s Love at work in this world. I am thankful to see it through the simplest of things.

We desperately needed to get out of the house for something other than an appointment, so I packed us a picnic and we headed out right before dark.

I’m a firm believer that if you can make your way to some water that you have made your way to some healing.

We sat at the waters edge and enjoyed the view like always.

Holding hands and making plans…that’s our thing and then we let God have His Way in it all. That way it works out better!

The winds began to pick up right at sunset and the breeze felt wonderful to the skin. It was as though God was already working out one of my issues…

Since this all began, I have had the absolute worst skin outbreaks. The stress of it all can be overwhelming but as I felt God’s Wind upon my face, I felt healing take place…I felt as though I had surrendered my hurt, my pain, my heartache and the overall stress to The One Who knows.

A melody in the air mixed with the silence. The sounds of the waters and the breeze as well as the fragrance of love.

Shy D is what some call him…my husband use to do a little DJ’in back in the day. He has his nack for things. He felt up to it over the weekend and filled the house with oldies but goodies. It was wonderful to see him enjoying himself.

I called in some intercession and I can feel the difference already. It’s so very important to have those prayer warriors…on the wall…calling out your name to The Name Above All Names.

I even got a little run in…it was exhilarating and much-needed.

The week ahead is as always full of appointments and we are prepared.

I’ve done the laundry and cleaned the floors…I even washed a few layers of dirt off both vehicles 😂

Had a few moments to play around in the garden and mid week I should have a minute or two to put out some scraps that I have been saving in the freezer…I love making my own compost.

On another note; Mr owes me 100 zillion dollars for all of these massages and with that in mind I smile.

Always find a reason to smile and every chance you get take time to smell the roses…it’s definitely a fragrance of love…

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water 💦

Blessings Abounding,Vetta

It’s 2am on a Friday and my crush & I are up eating Lumpia off of Lennox China and enjoying fresh juice from some of the beautiful Crystal flutes he got for me one Mother’s Day.

Reminiscing about a few years ago that we spent the entire summer on the go. A train ride to The DMV…A cruise to the Bahamas…a stay in Jacksonville, a trip to Miami, then Tampa and back home for an overnight stay then off to Mobile for Father’s Day to the races and shopping in the Big Easy the following week. We even went back to The DMV for a week just to check on the girls and for me to try and check out my other crush…Damian Jr Gong Marley lol. (My husband has taken me all over the place to see and hear this young man performing…from Florida to California and all on between)We were home for about 2 weeks and then we returned to Maryland to pick up the girls before school started here in Florida.

What a Blast and another dream come true. I had always dreamed of a summer vacation and God made it possible. Earlier that year we had taken the girls to Disney as well as attended their first Cirque Italia Water Circus at the beginning of Christmas Break. We spent the entire Christmas Break that year in The DMV.

I love playing in the snow!!!

Good Times and Great Memories!

Thursday was a long day of appointments…sometimes it’s as though the appointments last 5 minutes other times it can feel like 5 hours. Either way, I am thankful that God is into numbers and that His Grace is Sufficient.

I shared with my husband a dream as we sat…I was running, like a wild child through a meadow then the scene changed and I was at Tommy Oliver Stadium running the track. I then realized I was running the 880 event that I competed in in high school. As I looked around the stadium while running the only person I could identify was him on the sideline… with the look I first fell in love with so many moons ago.

I awoke from that dream not a bit concerned that I couldn’t remember the outcome. I may not have won that race but I definitely won his heart and he won mine…for this I am thankful.

Blessings Abounding,Vetta

Today’s Lima beans paired with yellow rice and cabbage was quite a pleasant meal my husband said. Desert for us has become whichever fresh fruit I get from the market that day.

This was to be the year that I started back with fruits in the garden…I am still hopeful, yet with so much on my plate it seems as though some days I feel like giving up on the garden all together.

The weather was quite nice today and I had plans to atleast wash my vehicle but at some point, feeling overwhelmed I settled on taking a ride to a nearby park as my husband napped and had a little cry.

Release is good and I try to not cry that often around him.

Life seems robotic lately. I have developed our routine. It’s problematic when you don’t have a schedule and things get overlooked. I’m thankful that we have always maintained a clean home, the only adjustment is that I’m basically maintaining it alone.

My mind races at times…then the reality hits that the three most important men in my life are facing a similar battle. My Dad will start his 48 weeks of treatment next week…my son is scheduling a Dr appointment and my husband struggles daily.

After tomorrow’s appointment we will know which treatment plan the Oncologist recommends and that will bring a sense of relief I suppose.

After tomorrow, I must get in some walking if not running…if not I might very well snap.

I was approached at a store recently by a person with the most trivial and petty of conversation…caught off guard at that. I tried my best to maintain my composure and did what my mother would have called shooing her away. People have no discernment but are as nosey as all outdoors. Approaching people who you really don’t know is a art form and must be handled with wisdom and discernment because you never know what is going on in a person’s life.

I pray more people become aware of this…

The struggle is real but so is Our God…An on time God, oh yes He Is.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water 💦

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

This morning came quickly…

Yesterday was a full day of appointments, then Mr decided that he wanted shrimp but not from home. We hadn’t eaten from TGIFs in at least 4 years and his taste buds led him to believe things would be the same. I was tempted to sit this one out…I’m glad that we both now are in agreement on this place. We will not be returning.

Last nite was a fruit fest and on this morning I cooked grits, eggs and turkey bacon. I finally got him to try some coconut milk with pineapple and he likes it. I have lima beans cooking for dinner and we sat out back for only a few minutes. One of the neighbors was out back as well and the faintest of cigarette smoke was in the air so we moved to the front and enjoyed the breeze, chatting it up for a while.

The garden is steadily peeping out and all on it’s own. I’ve been so busy that I have not had time to give it any real attention. Peppermint, Spearmint, Lemon Balm are growing strong. I also spotted both Lemon and German Thyme, which are his favorites. We have an abundance of Greek and Italian Oregano that survived the winter. Various potatoes are still growing strong as well the collard greens are still producing. This weekend for sure, I must get more sweet potatoes in the ground and okra planted if nothing else. This will happen after I’ve done some much needed weeding.

We had two decent nights of rest and then last night, so after I give him his shower we both will nap or atleast attempt to. Tomorrow is another appointment with the Oncologist.

One day at a time!!!

We’ve got this because God’s got us.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

A few years ago, I began asking women to walk with me…those walks were to be prayer walks.

Some of these women I knew…some I did not, complete strangers in this small town that I live in. Some flat out said no. There were a few that I tried to connect with and couldn’t for whatever reason. Then there were those that said yes, but from that day to this day…we’ve not taken one walk together.

I never let this stop me though. I walked until I was jogging and jogged until I was running. Praying all the while.

At some point, my husband would say to me that I was walking to far of a distance from home and he’d start to follow me in the car…block for block, I’d look up and he’d be there.

I’m not one for local walking parks, so eventually we were taking day trips…just so I could walk and walk in peace.

Those day trips were beautiful. As the weather would turn sunny we would find our way to a near by beach, where we’d walk the shorelines together…praying and enjoying The Beauty of His Creations.

Holding hands and making plans!

As 2022 was coming to an end I reflected back on the fact that I had made it this far without those walking partners and made up in my mind that I would no longer reach out to anyone.

I had reach amazing health goals, my mental clarity was at a all time high and the Peace of God was with me on every end.

There were a few days here and there during the past few years that I had grieved the support that I had hoped for…the sisterhood that I had thought would be nurtured through those walks…but as my mother would often say, you come into this world alone and you will leave the same route, so the best thing you can do is let your dependency be on God.

People come and they go and after much revelation I am now thankful for how things worked out. Those prayer walks with my husband turned out to be some of the most important times in our lives…the most beautiful.

Often times we think we know what we need and God shows us that it’s not at all what we needed.

Be Careful of the Friends You Keep!

I had thought that a good support system, a sisterhood, a team of praying women would be just so phenomenal. Lots of times, one looks at a picture of what sisterhood is and it’s all smoke and mirrors…senseless competition. Secrets are seldom kept secret and the careless backstabbing & backbitting that only leads to bloodshed…when Jesus has already shed His blood for us, seem incredibly immature and I don’t want any part of that. What I have learned is that, if a person cannot be there for me on the good times, I’d rather they not be there in the bad.

The beauty in it all is that I have gained an amazing group of women in my life and I am thankful.

One in particular, wanders from place to place and sometimes continent to continent and we cover each other in prayer. Of course, we’re not supposed to have favorites but oh well…she’s mine. Other’s are out living there best life and sending me love, encouragement and prayers from near and far.

I have an awesome mentor that speaks into my life and helps keeps me together…praying and believing that God is working things out for us in this season…

What more could a girl ask for…

On today I am thankful, that peace is our portion…that my husband is stronger than I ever imagined and that God is control.

Blessings Abounding,Vetta

To awake with a song in your heart and upon your lips…to then realize that dawns chorus is as well giving praises to God. Yes, even the birdies know.

On last night, we little a candle. A year to the date my husband lost his sister. A few years back, he lost a close friend. We have always had this tradition of lightning candles for those we love…be it their birthday on earth or their celebration in heaven.

We sat quietly and the room was thick with peace and fatigue. I was sure that my husband would get a bit of rest…I had just given him a rub down in an attempt to help reduce some of his body pains. I was so fatigued that I left laundry in the dryer and had only enough energy to say a prayer as I lay my head on my pillow.

That prayer included a request for rest. I felt as though I were running on fumes. My eyes were heavy as I prepared our dinner and started with the laundry. My husband was too tired to come downstairs for dinner and at one point after I had taken his up to him, I sat at the dinner table prepared to eat alone. My body was not willing yet my heart gave me the strength to climb those stairs so that we could eat together.

For dinner we had breakfast. I love salmon croquettes and I love them even more when I mix them with jack mackerel. I add in onion, bell peppers and jalapeños for a little extra and cheyenne for a little kick…grits, eggs & toast and we were happy campers.

On this morning, I am thankful…for rest. My faith has been tested lately and the battles seem to be many but the God I serve will give you rest on every side. I found myself deep in His Presence before drifting off to sleep and He answered my prayer…I slept for 4 hours uninterrupted. I feel brand new on this morning.

I had spoken with a mentor earlier in the day and as God would have it, my soul was blessed. Transparency is key in any relationship and I am so very thankful for the few that The Father has placed in our lives to be a blessing.

Even with mentorship off of the table for me…God still has need of my service and I am always in need of him, so I was able to briefly minister to two individuals on yesterday.

God Is Faithful!!!

I am for sure that this battle is not our but The Lord’s and that as long as we are in His Will and continue to let Him use us for His Glory, that He will take good care of us.

Remaining in His Presence and Resting in His Power.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

When I say The Father Knows…I mean just that.

On yesterday morning, I took a little walk. Just across the street to the water but it was nice. The air was crisp, so I didn’t stay long.

As I made my way back home, I glanced the garden and decided that the collard greens were ready for a pot. I snapped off a bag full…The pot next to them was full of the last of our lima beans. Mr will wanted some white rice and so that’s what he will get.

It’s so funny to me how he use to tease me about my food choices…now a days he eats alot of what I eat. I had asked if he wanted grits for breakfast. He has quickly acquired a taste for my Trader Joe’s organic oatmeal and the bag is nearly empty. He loves them. I add a small piece of cinnamon stick, a little brown sugar and he empties his bowl.

After breakfast, we chatted a bit and he took a nap. I cleared out the fridge, sat my plant babies outside and did some cleaning. My plant babies have suffered more neglect than ever but I’ll put in some effort to show them that the are still loved. Cleaning was my focus…I hadn’t realized just how much my husband contributes around the house until he became ill. Cleaning has always been therapeutic for me, so I won’t complain. I also have a tendency to dance around after cleaning and dancing is good for my mental…

We had potatoes for lunch. I made my way to the market afterwards to pick up some fruit and different nectars for him. He is eating more fruits lately and I am thankful.

The sun was shining brightly and the sky was beautiful. When I returned from the market I suggested we take a ride and he was excited for that. I packed our picnic w/ some fruit & water and drove over to a nearby park. I was able to drive close to the water so he wouldn’t get winded and pulled out our chairs…like we always do. We sat close on today…no cigar smoke blowing in the wind & our first outing in weeks.

We got quite the laugh. I am thankful that laughter is the best medicine & that it’s also good for the soul…we were in need & Our Creator always provides.

Off course, I took full advantage and did some recording.

I do believe we spotted this rock at the same time. My husband said, it’s us, two little birdies hanging out enjoying the water. I couldn’t agree more…this was the only souvenir we left with. It was all we needed…a simply reminder to continue enjoying life & to continue enjoying each other.

He is still very much the gentleman and habits sometimes die hard…he actually thought he was going to atleast help carry something back and so…I handed him our little souvenir of the day.

Headed home…put on his white rice, chilled some papaya nectar and dinner was served.

After cleaning the kitchen, I headed up to join him and watch a little TV. An episode of Green Acres & a back rub and he is feeling a bit relaxed. But soon his pain returns…it’s almost constant but I am reminded that so is Our God.

Remember That & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water

Blessings Abounding,Vetta

I spent the morning in my garden. Had a little talk with the birdies and reminded them that only a few of the seeds were for the taking and all is well. My collards are growing quickly and so, they will be added to the menu this week. They literally melt in your mouth and I for one can’t get enough. The Father knows and so I believe He makes sure that they grow overnight under His elegant stars and His beautiful moonlight.

This weekend was all about the release of sounds. Early morning prayers mixed perfectly with the sounds of God’s Wind and the subtleness of His Rain. My thoughts were of such a peaceful time. My prayer is all remains the same.

And with the mention of time, I trust that our times are in His Hands…in the hands of The Creator of Heaven and Earth and the fullness of life that is only found in Jesus.

Amen!!!

The Life given, so that we can be made whole…In His Mighty & Matchless Name…the sweet name of Jesus

And because He Is…the same yesterday, today and forever; I am confident that as He speaks through me, He is healing on today, the same as He healed on yesterday, the same as He will heal forever.

Always remember that we all are in need of prayer, as we are all in need of healing.

On today I also want to share with you that it is wise to listen to people as they speak and be mindful of whom you ask for prayer.

Last year I asked an individual to pray with me concerning a situation and she proceeded to try and tell me all the reasons why the person was going through the particular trial. Rehashing stories that would be 20 years old and older, mostly half truths & gossip… slander was so thick in the atmosphere and when all was said and done she couldn’t even tell me the person’s given name…just a bunch of what she thought and what she had heard and how she perceived things. Her pitiful opinion. I was in shock…out of respect for her age and her position I didn’t even bother to challenge her or correct her. As I sat there in shock, I silently began praying for her.

On today I am thankful that The only opinion that matters is God’s. I left that room with a quickness and because the God I serve specializes in quick things…my friend is healed and whole today.

Hallelujah!!!

I want you to understand how important it is to make prayful & conscious decisions on who we ask for prayer…a person with an understanding of the sacrifice of prayer…a person with a pure heart…a person with a mature mind…because the heart is desperately wicked.

An individual with a immature mind tends to think that everything is about them and what they desire and have trouble comprehending that it’s all about God.

At this juncture and in this season of my life, I have no time for the immature…I have no voice for them and no reason to express this journey that we are on.

No room for distractions!

My focus is on God.

Leaning In and Hearing His Voice and taking His direction.

As the saying goes…what’s understood does not need to be explained.

I will however explain this deliciousness in a bowl…

Rigatoni in a lovely tomato sauce loaded with mushrooms, peppers. onions & herbs. I couldn’t resist and added a perfectly toasted gouda grilled cheese.

Bon Appétit!!!

It’s been a wonderfully rainy Saturday. We chatted it up a little earlier in the day…I love the decision we made years ago to not have a television down stairs. Conversations need not be interrupted by outsiders…Then we took a nap, because that’s what you’re supposed to do on rainy days.

Despite the rain, I had to go to the market and wouldn’t you know it I noticed my tire was low. I’m thankful that in my past life lol, I learned to do many things. My husband has an air compressor so I aired it up and headed out.

The roads were flooded with rain and so was my garden. It’s been unusually chilly some days here in the Sunshine State…regardless my garden is peeping through.

Mr was resting when I returned. We talked a little and then another nap. Our sleep schedule has been really off for these past few weeks and everything opportunity for rest is welcome.

We’ve been leaving the meat at the market lately. On tonight we enjoyed a loaded salad…romaine, cucumbers, tomatoes, olives, green/yellow/orange peppers, jalapeños & greek peppers, and we shared a boiled egg. I added hemp, chia & flaxseed as well as bee pollen to mine. I cooked potatoes as well…Mr wanted salt, pepper & thyme. Me being extra added tumeric & curry powder.

Empty plates and full tummies!!! I finished up the laundry for the day and now we will tune into one of our shows before bedtime. Alone, the TV series…listening to the rain during the commercials and thanking God for peace.

My prayers on tonight will include the need for rest, not only for our bodies but for our minds as well. I’m thankful that God is working it all out.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Today was a good day.

My husband had labs done…he doesn’t like needles but he did good. Afterwards we rode around a little before the rain started. For dinner we made bean burritos w/spanish rice. I added fresh tomatoes and red onions to mine and danced around the kitchen a bit. Mr wanted some fries, so I cut up a potato and surprised him. I spotted a new drink for him w/electrolytes while at Winn Dixie and suggested he give it a try…he liked it.

As well, he enjoyed his first ride in one of the motorized carts. He drives the same way as he does on the road lol. I’m just thankful that he didn’t run anyone over.

On another note…my dad is in Jamaica. His first time out of the country. He said he’d take lots of pictures. I know he and his wife are going to have a blast, her daughter is getting married there…how exciting. We were going to spend our 5th wedding anniversary there but covid happened so I told them to have enough fun for us and I know he will do just that.

When they get back home he will start treatment for prostate cancer…48 treatments and he will be just fine. God’s got him, same as he did for my son’s father last year…same as He has my husband this year.

My son is making an appointment as well for a check up because his dad’s Dr said it’s a must…and all is well with my soul.

I’ll add my biological father to my prayers on tonight that he finds his peace…alzhimers is nothing nice. He was found driving on the wrong side of the road and far from home. Life is not always easy and when we tend to forget what is important for what is convenient we face harsh realities.

The rain is heavy on tonight and I love the sounds as it mixes with the wind.

God’s blessing were heavy on today & on time like clockwork and as always I am thankful.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Preparation is Key.

As last year was coming to an end, I prayed concerning the path for the coming year. As I began to receive the answers, I prepared those around me best I could.

God was revealing to me that there would be no mentoring. This being a passion, I found myself a little resistant but I’m obedient to His Voice regardless. It had been a long year and the rest would be welcome.

Next, it was revealed that there would be no coaching as well…my first thought was that I’d be without that income, my second thought was well Jehovah Jireh indeed will provide.

I had considered that I would be entering a season of rest and was excited for some me time and self care.

I informed my mentees that they had one big assignment for the upcoming year and that assignment was to Just Pray. Reminding them of the approach we had worked on throughout the year, which was to function as though I was unavailable. I never get any satisfaction out of a person being dependent upon me reaching heaven for them because I understand that tomorrow is not promised to any of us. I feel as though if I’ve poured into you and you have received then you have grown and matured to a place of confidence in self and more importantly confidence in God. This was my approach raising my son. This is the same model I use when mentoring. It has been a success for all those willing to succeed.

My coaching student became ill at years end, resulting in early retirement and contemplating relocating. We’ve sat and talked as friends a few times and her health has improved and I am thankful for answered prayers.

As I began to embrace the rest, life happens and I realize that The God I serve is more than enough.

He always goes before us…preparing the way. We just have to be sensitive to His Voice and obedient to His Will.

He was simply clearing my little calendar of all distractions and helping me understand that I would need my hands free to hold the hand that had no other to hold.

I’ve shed my tears and I’ll be sure to shed more…but my main concern is that my husband has both my hands to hold. Nothing else matters and to those who can’t understand that are simply a lost cause. On last year I lost two prayer partners, one whom I asked to pray for my sons father and they proceeded to try and tell me who he was and why he was going through…repeating silly stories that were 20 years old and older and they didn’t even know his given name. I felt as though i was on some reality show and I sat in disbelief and thought thank you Lord Jesus for showing me their true character. The second, was lost because she didn’t know my heart and couldn’t hear my voice…until she heard it.

Jehovah Jireh indeed provides…trust me! He has revealed to me all I need to know and I trust Him with my life. Only two months into the year and already I’ve let go of so many…I’ll lose more and I’ll carry on. I have no time or space in my life for the self centered.

The Master showed me just who I’ll depend on for this journey and I am thankful…regardless of anyone’s perception, especially those with no clear sight.

Over the past weekend I spoke briefly on my Podcast about a love challenge and I must admit I didn’t do so well. I had a rough couple of days. I am on a better path now and my husband is a constant reminder…sometimes I don’t want to love on others and then I am reminded that I must do just that. I don’t have to like their behavior, I must love them even when they are ugly though. One thing I know for sure is healing is a ugly process, be it spiritual, emotional or physical. It has been just that…but I’ll finish my assignments as always and as we all should.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

There will be good days…there will be bad and this is Life.

My friend said to me on today to hold my head up and keep it up. I plan on doing just that even on the hard days. I know there will be plenty but I’m battle ready as I said to another just the other day.

To be confident in God is all I know to do.

I spoke with my son on tonight and he is always a voice of reason. I know that his prayers reach heaven and I’m thankful that he doesn’t mind using his voice to speak with God.

An added bonus…is when one of your bonus babies is also a prayer warrior and she says breath…you just breath and as you feel the release you find your calm and understand that you are in your peace.

You trust that God has everything under control, you let the tears fall where they may and you continue on your journey.

I’m finding my way along this blessed path and I am confident that the blessings are abounding.

Vetta

Today was a good day and the moon was beautiful on tonight.

We ran errands early and were home by lunch time…I pan fried a few baby golds from the garden and a ear of corn to share. Also some polish sausage w/sauerkraut and a massive salad…Mr wanted a little treat from the corner store, a sort of icee. He has been so good at drinking his water lately that I couldn’t refuse. He drove himself and gased up my vehicle while I prepared lunch. I noticed he was a little winded when he returned.

During the day we shared stories as always and has lots of laughs. I am thinking on tomorrow that we might make our way to the water and enjoy some views as well as the fresh air…we haven’t done that in a few weeks now.

It will be different on tomorrow because he won’t be fighting with the wind to assure that no cigar smoke comes my way. I’m so proud of him…and thankful. I am also thankful that peace is our portion.

Being so, I share with you, G our peace lily. I had offered him to a woman who I felt was in need of peace, as a prophetic gesture…she seemed so excited as I spoke to her about gifting it to her, smiling from ear-to-ear, but after several attempts at contacting her and no response, I just left it alone.

How often we have our own plans…and how often we soon find out that they have nothing to do with God’s Plan.

Still all is well with my soul. Blessings Abounding, Vetta

On this morning, as we shared our dreams what stood out to me was that we were doing things together…as always.

My dream was that we were riding bikes across a bridge. As we were heading to the peak I could see hats coming off other people in the group and then one of the guides got off his bike and proceeded to go to look off the bridge. Of course, I was yelling for him to not leave his bike in the middle of the bridge but of course, you can’t help everyone. Some will simply do as they please and complain about the consequences later.

What I was proud of the most is that neither of us did what we would normally do…which would have involved us stopping and trying to convince the gentleman that he was putting himself in danger. This of course would have put us both in danger as well and we aren’t doing things like that at this juncture in our journey. We are traveling the path God has us on.

My husband’s dream was us dancing all over our house he said. There was a button on the wall over a Honduras piece of furniture that he bought me and it would play music for about 3 or 4 minutes then we could take a break. He said we were really getting down lol.

I laughed and said so you finally learned how to dance and his reply was as he looked in the mirror that he didn’t look that cool while dancing… so he didn’t learn to dance lol But that’s OK, I have enough rhythm for the both of us.

As I reflected back on my dream I’m not sure what bridge we were on. We’ve traveled to 41 states and spent a beautiful anniversary in the Bahamas at Bob Marleys Resort during our marriage and crossed many bridges…together.

So that’s the plan…to continue to cross each bridge as they come…together…because that’s what we signed up for.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

I just wanted to come on and share a little. I pray you are doing well on today. Taking care of you is important & putting ourselves first is quite often our most difficult challenge…I know it use to be for me. Not anymore!

I give my all to my Creator and no one else because only He has proven Himself worthy.

People who look at your life and assume that it comes with ease will drain you if you allow it, they mean no harm and often don’t even know any better so it’s important to establish boundaries. It’s important to schedule self-care, turn off the phone as well as the television and tune into God.

There are also some who look at your life and feel some type of way…they can be draining as well and this is why it’s important to be tuned in to God.

This past weekend I spent my days doing what I enjoy most…walking and talking to The One Who does all things well. It rained alot for which I am thankful, I recently dropped a few seeds in the ground and the downpours from heaven were an answered prayer. He always answers. And I desperately needed answers…pertaining to so many things.

Sometimes our answers comes in reminders; sometimes gentle reminders other times they are harsh realities. I say that to say this…

Recently I had a conversation with an acquaintance and I was reminded of a time in my life that a young lady was hell bent on slandering me. This went on for years. She would say the darndest things…like most with the mind of a child would. I remember mostly she wanted others to think I was a witch, practicing black magic in it’s most evil form. As a prophet, I’ve always understood that this was simply an attack by a person on assignment.

It’s real out here people and anyone who would say such horrible things about a person is suffering…in the worst way imaginable. Letting the enemy use you for such smallness is simply minded yet those with broken spirits and unhealed hearts are available for all types of things. I live in a very small town so things like this spread around like butter on a hot summer day yet I was never really phased by it…annoyed but never unnerved because people simply are who they are and oftentimes don’t know any better. Forgetting that what goes around comes around…but I digress.

This acquaintance and I laughed at the memories same as we would laugh back in the day. They also reminded me that all the awful things she wanted others to believe about me were actually the awful things that she has shown herself to be. We also agreed that we would keep her in prayer because she certainly needs it…still to this day! But don’t we all…She has certainly changed her life in alot of ways but we reap what we sow!!!

I share this with you so that you are mindful of people and their presence in and about your life. We may never understand with our minds why things happen but if we trust with our hearts that God is with us…it will be understood that no weapon will prosper. So continue to live your life and live life like it’s golden.

Never mind them…

Stand Firm and Master Yourself, understanding that people are who they are and they do things…just because. Same as The Father blesses just because

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water 💦

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Is it just me…

I’m in such a blessed season. I’m so excited about what God is doing in my life and I get to witness so much that is happening in the lives of others and it simply makes my heart smile.

Even so there’s always a flip side.

Messy Mindsets!!!

Always remember and never forget that those who are hurting will never be happy for you. They themselves are most often in need of an adult time out and are not even aware of the spiritual aspect of things.

They are lost!

Living by the flesh is dangerous. So once you identify this in an individual the best way to maintain your peace is to simply disconnect from them. I’ve had to disconnect from many. My peace and my prosperity in God far outweigh anyone’s position in my life.

Recognize that they are lost in their own tragedy. This world is their playground and ultimately their downfall if they cannot recognize their wrong.

Pray for them often not much else can be done…and don’t forget to drink your water 💦

Vetta

I’ve worked for myself basically my entire adult life. Building businesses is no easy task, yet I’ve always loved the challenge.

A landscaping business for 20 plus years, a boutique that was first storefront and then online, and a cleaning service. I’m currently a property manager for the past 12 years.

In the year 2021, I decided I was up for a new challenge. I began the process and shared with a individual a little of my strategy. They couldn’t see it…simply because they had never built anything. I almost became discouraged though, because I thought so much of them. Lately, I get a good laugh out of it all.

I continued to build…as I had done my entire life.

In 2022, God opened the door that I had prayed about. I became a digital content creator.

Today, 12 January 2023 and The Great Architect has opened two more doors in this digital age and it’s not even 2 weeks into the new year.

It’s official: I was created to create.

I’m excited for the future!!!

I share this so that anyone who desires to build be mindful of the downpours because it’s not always sunshine and rainbows…we can’t have the latter without the downpours.

The downpours will be the hurt when few believe in you… When few even acknowledge you…when you get little to no support from those that claim to be “lifers”…when nobody shares your business or product. When they hug your neck and stab you in the back with their words.

I’m thankful that these new ventures are the same as every business I’ve started. I do what I do and still get paid, regardless of who likes it or not.

I’ve got so much up my sleeve it’s hard to keep my shirt on 😂😂

It’s said that folk will acknowledge and support a stranger before they support those in their contacts list and it’s a truth that can’t be denied .

I smile as I view who’s who in my life…thankful that all I need is for them to continue to sit back and look the other way.

It’s something of a blessing to have discernment…to have insight…being able to gain a accurate understanding of who people really are and love them anyway.

I have the best mentors I’ve ever had…in life! It is a rewarding journey and an incredible opportunity.

So….to all those willing to build. Those willing to put in the work. Those who understand that it’s never about anyone else, what they think or what they say…to those I say build.

Enjoy the journey and give it your all because it definitely pays off in the end.

Be mindful that as God establishes your business, the enemy will use those closest to you to try and discourage as well as sabotage…be mindful as well that you will lose many along the way. Neither are meant to stand in your spotlight or even share in your journey. Hold no ill feelings…they are a lost people. Pray for them and keep on keeping on.

As well, be sure that you have people in your life that can reach heaven because you will need much intercession. The enemy is busy but my prayer warriors are as well.

Now build…be fruitful and multiply each blessing that you are blessed with.

Blessings Abounding & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water 💦

Vetta 😇

Life, She teaches you. I say She because I Am speaking of me…

In life, we will experience so so very much and so very very much of it will hurt.

But the pain is the beauty of it all. And all of those ashes are needed is what I have learned.

At a very early age, before I ever even started school, I learned about pain. A pain that taught me to fight. Fight for my life…my sanity…fight for my peace.

There were several years of my life that I lost myself because I had begun to dislike “The Fight” because I felt as though I would lose too much or rather too many.

There are seasons though, that we can’t escape the fight and it is ever present.

What is important I am realizing is that we must be sure that what we are fighting for is worth it.

So, now that I am sure. I’ll say this…

When two opponents step in a ring, there is an expectancy of a end and the prize is victory over all of these wicked plans.

TRIGGER WARNING!!!

In my thirties I had a conversation with a woman via telephone. This was my first conversation with her ever and the only conversation as to this day.

She shared with me how glad she was to finally be able to have a conversation with me after all these years of never knowing or meeting me being that she was my aunt. We talked some small talk and then she shared with me why she didn’t have a relationship with my biological father (her brother). She shared with me how she had once left him at her home to watch her daughter only to return to him trying to rape her daughter (his niece) and how she had chased him out the house with a knife.

My response was good for you and thank you for sharing your story with me.

It was then that I found my voice. My aunts words were an echo of my own. I began to share my own story of how my biological father had molested me as a child.

I felt as if God had allowed this divine moment to happen so that I would never again question myself and my own experience. I understood then that my biological father was simply a sick individual.

What other rationale is there for a father to be on top of his own child…a child so young that she isn’t even enrolled in school yet…a child so young that perhaps he thought I would not remember. His own. His only child. His prey!

I once confronted him with this information and he began to express to me what he had gone through as a child, never any mention of any sexual perversion and then I stopped him in the conversation and let him know that at this point in my life I couldn’t be concerned with hearing his story while in the middle of processing my own.

He then offered a somewhat piss poor apology for anything that he had ever done to hurt me.

A few years later, I received a phone call from him in reference to the original letter I had written him about the molestation that lead to our conversation…he now knows nothing about the molestation. This was the first time he had read the letter…it must have got mixed up in old junk mail is what he said. The dates/age that I had estimated in my head didn’t add up to him because he had been in prison at the time…So it couldn’t have happened. Geesh!!!!! So what were you apologizing for previously.

I expressed to him that if I wasn’t 4 or 5 then maybe I was 3 or 4 and in all honesty if I was 100 yrs old let’s please not make me out to be the liar here. Because regardless of the date it had happened, right in my great mother’s house on Caldwell Drive in Panama City FL.

I share this with you all because…

It’s important that these stories are shared. The predators in our family don’t deserve more than those that have been preyed upon.

Family secrets of this nature happen more often than most would admit.

I have spoken with many women & men in the last 20 years that have experienced some form of sexual assault. Unfortunately, it’s common in families. Often swept under the rug while many suffer in silence.

The suffering is intense my friends. It can become tragic.

I’ve given up trying to have any form of relationship with him. I have come to the realization that it does not benefit my life in the least. I have no desire to and there is such a freedom in it that it brings healing to my soul.

And whatever is good for my soul is all that I plan on doing at this stage of life.

Oftentimes others wonder why there is estrangement in families…this is why.

So before you judge why family members are not close or why they don’t come around…consider this.

I’ve got more stories to tell than NBC could handle about these matters within my own family.

So before you jump to conclusions or believe alot of noise from perpetrators, please take the time to get to know why families are not close. Why family members don’t show up to gatherings, Why siblings are not welcome at siblings home.

I’ve chosen to live my life wide open so that the hurt can heal.

I’m also praying that the echo that was my aunts voice becomes my own and I am as brave and courageous as her Wynn my time comes.

The Truth Hurts but so does Healing…Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

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He Answers! He Always Answers.

I Found My Tribe!!!

Recently I’ve expressed the importance in & of finding your tribe. Life changes in the blink of an eye. One moment you are listening to a heart beat…the next moment it stops.

With this being the reality, it’s important for me to waste little time on or with life’s small battles when there is a real war going on.

Most would consider that I am referring to some political matter; much to do with the election, perhaps even a racially charge debate on the rise…

Things of this nature never draw my attention far.

I see this world through the lense of my spirit. It is the only way in which I can survive.

The war that I am referring to is the war within…regardless of the words we speak our actions are our real truths.

Going within. Doing the work. Looking in the mirror and seeing past what the eyes see and experiencing what is felt within is the true test of seeing selfworth.

So many believe they are healed….believe that they have all the answers…believe that their way is better than the highway.

A willingness to hear another perspective and extend grace is oftentimes rewarding and have been some of my most important lessons.

Being unable to hear the voice of wisdom and experience…leaves many unfortunately stuck and repeating destructive patterns. I see it through coaching and mentoring often. It can be gut wrenching and leave one drained.

More self care…

So as this chapter begins, I’ll dedicate more of my time to myself and my interests.

Now back to my tribe…

This 50 birthday was blessed. A few days of what has the best self care retreat ever.

Relaxation! Observation! Conversation!

With Like Minds…

I experienced a women’s retreat like never before. Just imagine entering a room full of beautifully scarred and gracefully healing women.

Imagine being the new one. The painfully shy one. The one who’s voice is seldom heard…rarely appreciated and often ignored.

The one who is unheard of…The Birthday Girl 😎

I Asked Big Though & He Answered!

During this time I had the pleasure of hearing so many truths and speaking so much truth to so many women. I also had the pleasure of my voice being heard…by others but more importantly by me. It’s life changing and certainly makes the heart smile.

I’m excited about the connections.

Thankful for another answered prayer and the opportunity for growth.

Thankful for acceptance and community.

What an absolutely blessed birthday it has been.

I’m excited about the future.

With that being said I am excited to share with you what I came home to on today. I have successfully grown peanuts. Last year I didn’t do so well. The reason was because I was impatient. Pulled them to soon.

Sometimes we just know a thing. We see or get a glimpse of what an end result might look like and we want it to soon. Or either we want to try and avoid it all together. Either way we suffer a loss.

So we must learn patience.

It can yield us our future.

It can surpass our past.

Peanuts are the 12th most valuable cash crop in the US.

Imagine: Investing in yourself. In your future. In the future of your offspring and leaving them a legacy…

And I’m not talking about The Money. I’m referring to a legacy of Divine Appointments…

On today, I embrace all of me…the good, the bad and the ugly.

Honoring the past helps you to appreciate the good memories and avoid the same pitfalls and mistakes in the future.

Release others and embrace yourself.

Release your past and embrace your future.

Accepting what was enables us to accept what is…

We all need time to grow and mature but we can’t stay in the ground forever…or we suffer.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

On today I celebrating my birthday and expressing three things…

All any of us can do, is do the best we can!

Accomplishing your dreams will spark even bigger dreams!!

Love is a powerfully beautiful thing!!!

I challenge you as well to live your life.

Live it to the fullest and share your gifts with the world.

Those certainly are my plans because when I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left and could say…

I used everything you gave me…

Think about that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

A early morning ride in search of fall. The air was crisp and the breeze was gentle. We watched the squirrels play for a while and then listened carefully as the birds spilled the beans.

To Sum It Up…

When your world seems like it’s too much to handle, just breath…take a deep breathe & have a good laugh. It clears the mind and frees the spirit.

Later today we will be with family and that’s always a blessing. Although today we’re laying to rest a family member, there will be lots of love and laughter. I am thankful that I also get to give out hugs.

Just to see the Smiles….

It’s important to create enough memories with the ones you love so that when their physical presence is no longer available…you are sustained until your spirits meet again.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

It’s important to make peace with the past. I mean truly make peace. Releasing all the things that hurt us. Forgiving ourselves for all the pains we have caused…it can become exhausting and crippling otherwise.

So on last night we did more moon chasing. I was finally able to capture a beautiful shot and she was on fire.

She reminded me of a friend, a dear sister whose entire being is a flame. I prayed that her fire continues to burn. I prayed for her twin flame to burn a path to her heart. She sets this world on fire with her magic and she deserves it all.

We all do!

With each thought & each reflection of life, my heart melted a little. I thought of the two beautiful souls that I texted earlier in the week just to send some love…both who have invited me into their homes and allowed me to sit at their tables and cry…releasing pains unimaginable. I was grateful to have yet another beautiful soul that I spoke with over the phone and all the laughter and history that we have shared. Thankful that we have enough stories to last a lifetime.

And here we are again…thankful for life.

Thankful for the beautiful souls I’ve been blessed to journey with.

It’s Thoughtful Thursday. What are you thankful for on today?

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Because we live in Florida, I can dress like it’s summertime year round. Today I decided on a pair of Ralph Lauren. Size 12

I am proud of me. No, it was not easy. Definitely worth it though and I’m no where near the goal. From a size 24 down to a size 12 has had its challenges.

A almost 2 year journey. I started by detoxing and doing some gut work. The colon is crazy!!! It’s unbelievable how much “stuff ” we carry. Also a reasonable explanation of why so many are “full of…themselves” 😎

Walking 3 miles until I could walk 6 with ease. From sidewalks to streets to parks & bridges…Building momentum for the jogs and now I’m actually running some as well. Having stairs in your home is a plus but there is nothing quite like having access to 3 flights over the summer months. Additionally, I lift weights. Years ago, I was almost to toned for my own liking so I’m sure to keep my workouts soft 😇

I’ve been asked what I was taking…Better care of myself is the answer!

When others don’t have the discipline to put in the work, they assume you think like they think…No pills involved, Thank you very much! No surgery on my mind.

All natural!

I softly whispered to an acquaintance recently, “Don’t act like you didn’t know me Wynn I was a size 8” Geesh 😎

I pulled out my size 18 wedding gown and smiled. I’ve got big plans for her!

A friend reminded me that this body is my canvas and I’m going to create the most Pleasant Peace I can.

I owe it to myself! So do you… Now don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding,

Vetta

So on this evening I made dinner while Mr made beats! Being that its Taco Tuesday, I gathered the goodies necessary to ride the wave.

I’m not sure what to call it besides Delicious. Maybe Vetta’s Toasty Nachos…and because today is National Nacho Day, I put an end to our cravings.

I used Santinas Tortilla Chips as the base. Yellow Rice for a lovely centerpiece. Ground Beef topped with black beans, fresh tomatoes, red onions, cheese, cilantro, lime and all the peppers I desired. A little sour cream will help me deal with the fact that I couldn’t find a ripe avocado. A nice drizzle of Ortega Street Sauce and it’s a wrap.

To work off this great meal, I decided to chase the moon on tonight. She was radiant…beautiful and seemingly full of life. I often say that not everything can be captured. Some things simply have to be enjoyed…witnessed…appreciated and held close to the heart.

Traveling a few blocks before realizing that tonight was for me and that I am blessed beyond measure by the simplicity of His Love.

As our adventure came to a end, I witnessed someone else enjoying God’s Full & Beautiful Moon and that was good enough for me.

Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water,

Vetta

In the story of your life, write the best book that you can.

Have pages on understanding and tales of hardships.

Fill your story with adventure, laughter and love…

Make each chapter reflect time well spent. Meet your obligations and take time to meet your aspirations as well.

If you live up to your potential you’ll never have to live down any disappointment.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

As I welcome November, I am pleased to celebrate another year of life this month.

On Today…I Am Thankful for Life!!!

And oh what a beautiful life it is…when I say thankful I mean just that.

When I say beautiful…well beauty is in the eye of the beholder…so,

All around me & Everywhere I go and with Everyone I see…I look for the beauty within…not only inside of them but as well, the beauty inside of me.

It’s important for our “insides” to match our “outsides”…for our walk to meet our talk.

In other words…#allthingsreal

Just as we are created to be!

Comprende!

Life’s too short to be looking down on people. Instead, look up and find the beauty in one another.

Enjoy The Beauty of His Creations!

It’s easy to find flaws when that’s all that you are looking for…Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding,

Vetta

I had thought about getting a nice fall centerpiece but after a few aisles at a few stores I changed my mind. Everything is the same or so very similar.

Just as I forgot about it, my crush says, “It’s time to ride”

A coaching session needed to reschedule, so we had the entire day to hang out. We had a full tank, so we took a little ride, found a little water, had a marvelous picnic and then a beautiful stroll as we made our way to the dock. A gentleman was fishing for dinner without complaint. A boat passed in the distance and then the calm. The temperature was just right with the perfect breeze off the water.

Breath In!

Breath Out!

Good Conversation!

Good Revelation!

The butterflies were as busy as could be and fluttering all around me my husband said. But I was caught up…I had saw a vision and I was going to make it happen. It is not always clear in the beginning…these visions, yet we must trust that if God gives us a vision and we put in the work it will come to pass.

Trial & Error is the way of life. We learn as we go and we unlearn as we grow…trusting the end result that speak volumes.

We left the dock and the calm of His Waters to explore more. I gathered my goodies. Excited about each discovery.

Our work is done and after a simple prayer…Home Sweet Home!

I am thankful for creativity! I made our fall centerpiece and my crush made some music. Then I did some editing. Fun Friday indeed!!!

And there you have it…check out the little video I made😇

Live. Laugh. Love…and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Another blessed day and I am thankful. This morning I was up before dawn. My first words of each day begin as a prayer from a thankful heart.

On this morning, I just sat up in bed for a while. I watched the sky light up. I listened as the birds shared their good news. Then just as I closed my eyes in the silence, I could hear the sound of motors passing. Those heading to the office. Others are heading to the base…the hospitals…clocking in & clocking out as life goes on.

As my mind begins to race…I can see myself going for a jog this lovely morning and then I conclude that I’d rather not leave the house yet. I’ll spend some time on my Schwinn. A little music in my ear and all is well. I resist the urge to ask Mr to make a donut run. Some quiet time in Vetta’s Garden and then a nice ride by some water.

I called my brother and chatted for a while today. It’s always good to hear his voice and thoughts on life. Good conversation is a gift.

I’ve recently been working on tuning people out…sometimes it’s the safest thing to do.

As for those I feel the need to listen to, I’ve also been very intentional on tuning in and listening to the words they offer me. It has been incredibly insightful and inspiring.

How do I decide who to tune out?

Most aren’t talking about much to begin with so that’s that…it’s easy to tune out nonsense. Those that i find myself engaged with…It’s simple, if my spirit is disturbed I will excuse myself and exit the conversation…the relationship if need be!

Today is pedicure day!!! I’m thinking turquoise for the toes. I’m walking boldly through life and my feet have always been a priority, so I’m sure to take good care of them as they take good care of me.

I captured this beauty while my crush and I were out and about. A single bloom…that’s all it sometimes entails. Just know that there will always be thornes…in Life that is!

Life is too precious and too short to waste on what isn’t good for your soul…figure out what is and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

And these are just that…these things…these things that’s I do. Simply gifts, little gifts to myself, that I also share with others.

They are our reminders…simple reminders of life and it’s simple pleasures and sometimes hidden treasures that just ought not be hidden but shared by all those willing to see The Beauty of His Creations.

See God’s Beauty All Around You…each and every day. Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding,

Vetta

On today I am thankful for rest.

Quite often I have found myself overextended…that is becoming a thing of the past for me. Busy being available for others can easily lead to not being available for self.

I’m living more intentional these days…It seems as though it was just yesterday but it’s actually been a year that I asked God to show me Who’s Who in my life. Once we gain this knowledge it’s easier to wait on God. People can love you and mean you no harm yet still be a distraction.

Distractions lead to Drainage!!!

I’m thankful for sight beyond sight as well as a ear to hear because He Answers.

So on today, I rested and rested well. Trusting God that regardless of anyone’s behavior or anyone’s belief that I’ve been true to self. Also knowing that beyond a shadow of a doubt God’s Got me…right in the palm of His Hand!!!

I’ve learned to speak less and pray more…Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Because Knots Have To Be Tied and Brooms Need To Be Jumped…

Because of those things and so many more, my Dad stood in the sand on yesterday and waited on his bride…patiently!

Smiling from ear-to-ear. Wiggling his toes in the sand. Rocking from side to side…grinning 😊 He had the perfect view of God’s blue skies and His deep waters as The Sun shined down upon him…only one GOOD THING missing.

“Where she at?” was what I heard lol…what I saw was my Dad dancing around in the sand nervously. It was time for his love to be by his side and all I could do was smile. I joked with him before the ceremony that he had found him another knot to tie…and why not. If we are blessed enough in this life to find love enough in our hearts for another person…why not share sunsets with them as often as possible.

And laughter, lots & lots of laughter as well as everything else that life has in store for you.

Growing in Love. Growing in Life.

My Dad’s advice to my husband & I after we married was to just be good to one another. It’s really that simple for me.

Yes, life can be challenging at times yet being a good human to another human shouldn’t be a challenge at all.

Remember That and Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

This weekends plans changed…and for the better. There was a Seafood Festival nearby in Destin FL but I really didn’t want to be around people and I really wanted my husband to rest.

So in luei, I marinated salmon & shrimp; Jerk seasoning, cracked pepper, lemon & lime juice and several of Vetta’s herbs.

Once it hit the grill with olive oil and some irish cream butter I added sweet onion, ahola pepper, big bertha pepper, havasu & jalapeño as well as lemon and lime slices…That’s when I see Mr peeping and taking his seat at the table😉 Paired to perfection w/ jasmine cilantro lime rice & sauteed spinach w/ fresh garlic & lemon juice.

We were certain there was not a dish quite like it at the seafood festival.

To add to the fun of the night, my crush made his way to the market for brownie mix because he makes the best…But oh my, how many sit ups will this cost me!!!

Dinner & Dessert!!!

It’s all worth it though! It’s always nice to just be at home…looking at one another…telling jokes…living our best life right from the comfort of our home.

Always remember and never forget that this world owes you absolutely nothing and there is absolutely nothing that you owe this world.

No if’s ands or buts about it…Believe That & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water.

Blessings Abounding,Vetta

On today…I am thankful for understanding. Understanding that there is no healing with blaming.

Who did what is done and over with.

Self-reflection of One’s Own patterns is where Healing Begins.

Remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

What a day…another Fun Friday…another beautiful day in paradise. It’s just past noon and the day has already filled me up.

A tenant moved. Walk through was at 10am. 98% of the townhouse was cleared out. Unfortunately they put items they no longer wanted across the street on someone else’s property including a few bags of household trash…Yuck!

I am thankful because that neighbor across the street has the tenants on camera putting it on their property and were kind enough to call code enforcement.

It really doesn’t pay to be ugly…because just like that the tables can turn. When those tables begin to turn is the point at which one normally understands what is important. If they do not then this is the point of no return and you are the cause of all the problems they suffer. Tears are shed. They pretend they don’t know your name so they call you “something else” 🤐 Fingers are pointed and they are pointed at you…phone in hand and on record!

Blah! Blah! Blah!

When all is said and done…My peace is unDisturbed and you are now faced with losing more than you gain by being nasty.

And life goes on…So don’t forget to drink your water. Blessings Abounding, Vetta

It’s been said that if we find ourselves being everything to everyone, most often we have neglected self. I’m certainly understanding this more and more.

Once we begin to neglect our self…this world will follow suit.

In the past, I’ve tried to always stay connected…regardless of the situation.

No More!

I’m tired….tired of doing 99% of the work it takes to maintain a relationship. If I don’t touch base with you, if I don’t text you, if I don’t plan something…nothing is planned.

The notion that I only hear from you is when you need something is over as well.

I’ve already set my phone to Do Not Disturb…the only time my phone actually rings is if my one and only son calls me. I have to add a 210 area code to that list when I finish this post because I have a new phone…and I love to hear her voice. Baby girl; her and I have had one conversation about this and I’m going to have another one with her soon. These days I check text messages and respond accordingly. In this season I am focused on my son and his father’s healing. I am focused on praying him as well as his father through their process.

It still saddens me to think of those I asked to pray with me for him and the first response is how awful of a person he was…from people who don’t even know him personally. Folks is something else. Like literally don’t even know his name. For the record; my sons father was never awful to me. He may have been alot of things and he may have been not the best but he was there. Most often we have to grow up before the realization hits. We never went without what we needed! Didn’t get everything we wanted but who does? He was better than most father’s I’ve witnessed. He did better than most men I know! He did the best he could at the time and has definitely learned some life lessons. His father left this earth before he ever got to know him…still a baby himself!!!

The two of us know our story…we know our truth! What the world thinks is irrelevant!!! We’ve both had to set a few straight and then life teaches you that you don’t owe anyone an explanation about 20 years of your life and you certainly don’t owe an explanation of our friendship now. He gave me the best gift of all…My Sunshine. Our Golden Child! And for that I am forever grateful.

Nothing else matters!

On another note; I cooked black eyed peas, ribs and yellow rice for my husband. I make the very best homemade BBQ sauce. My husband says it should be on shelves. How neat would that be. The peas are full of goodness from Vetta’s Garden. Onions, garlic, bell peppers, okra and lots of herbs as well as peppers. Cooking is certainly a passion of mine. Life without passion is not for me.

Sometimes you have to just let others keep on living to understand things! Some will. Some won’t!

In the meantime, you keep on living as well and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta 💌

It’s almost midnight and my hands are a beautiful yellowish orange…I have peeled more turmeric & ginger than ever before.

Some will be put aside for my face mask. Other than that it will be used in the kitchen to of course “spice things up”. On last night I made up some of my tea for us. I’ve most likely shared but each time it differs a little lately…

Vetta’s Tea Time Tonic: Raw Tumeric Raw Ginger Fresh Garlic Fresh Echinacea Fresh Chamomile Fresh Lavender Fresh Rosemary Fresh Purple Basil Fresh Lemon Balm Fresh Spearmint Fresh Peppermint… All from Vetta’s Garden. These lovely ingredients are not alone. I also add Mullien Leaf, Bay Leaves and Raw Honey.

After a little steep time is when I add the Fresh Garlic. I actually enjoy the garlic, tumeric and ginger bits in my tea…it’s like a little snack to munch on lol

I’m sure to drain Mr Coley tea. He doesn’t do all the extra😎 He just wants his tea…uninterrupted by bits & pieces of this and that! On this morning he asked for a 2nd cup.

Our cups have been running over lately….

This month has been full & eventful at best. 1 September was my angel birthday, my great aunt, my hero…I imagine heaven must be happy to have her. I know I sure was. 3 September was my husband’s birthday and 10 September was my God Mother’s birthday…a prayer warrior indeed. My beautiful extra special bonus daughter will celebrate another year of life as well this month. On one of her visits I stepped outside to cut fresh flowers before she arrived and burned the bottom of my foot the side walk was so hot. I use to always be out barefoot in the yard before this happened and my husband would always just shake his head…after a few years of being married he stopped telling me to put on shoes, seeing that I was not. Then life teaches you! You learn the value in the lesson and you have the reminders of what others mean to you, because scars can also be a beautiful thing. It reminds you of the love you feel when you hear their voice or as you stroll through your photos and when google sends those memories to you. It pushes you to pray a little harder as they live out their purpose planned life! To witness their growth is most certainly a Irreplaceable feeling.

I’m blessed indeed! I’ve got a bonus baby that is all the Rave!!!

On tonight I had a pampering session and did a little DIY that rivals any pedicure.

Soak your feet in three tablespoons of baking soda and water mixture for 30 minutes.

But before you do this plan ahead by soaking a slice of bread in apple cider vinegar for a couple hours or however long it takes to turn into a paste. Apply the paste to your feet and put on socks…Thank me in the morning!

On today I was able to share a photo with my two of husbands nephews of their father as a kid. He left this earth early in life.. I often tell my husband that I was blessed to have met him.

My husband says maybe 3 or 4 years in the photo. I was so pleased that my husband saw the photo book when he went to check on his uncle’s house. I love photos like this. They weren’t able to grow up with him. That makes a difference. I know because I didn’t grow up with mine…I can see so much of their father in them. It’s a beautiful thing.

The fact that God knew that I didn’t need him to be in my life because God knows my life would have been different and in a very unfortunate way. I’ve forgiven my biological father for so much…so very much!! I’ve attempted a relationship with him far to many times. I’m Done!

My mother married the coolest man I know…that is my father. My dad. The one who never abandoned me. The one who never mishandled me. DNA is all fine and well but it doesn’t make you family.

Life doesn’t always give us what we want but it certainly gives us what we need. And Closure is a healing balm all on it on. I’m letting it go. I’m letting go of a few other relationships as well. I’m no longer interested in maintaining any relationship all on my own any further. Especially those that drain me at its very presence. I am alive. I am living my life…not just existing! This new season I have walked in is #outwiththegloomifyouwanttobloom. Find something in life that you are passionate about. Do it! And then talk about it. Show it off! I promise you it will make the low times high and the high times fly…like when you’re having fun. Time Flies!!!!

Find your passion. Do what makes you feel alive inside or do nothing else. Regardless of how it appears, you are changing the ways of the world when you live your best life. Your very presence is enough…I want to do all that The Creator has purposed for me to do, that is what makes my heart smile!

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

The most important lesson I’ve learned in life was learning to walk with God. Learning to walk with God enables me to learn to talk to God. Learning to talk to God has taught me to know & hear His Voice and because I know His Voice, I’ve learned to listen & always trust His Plan.

Is it difficult at times? Yes! Does it get easier? Yes! As long as we trust the process.

At the beginning of this year I began working with one of my mentees on hearing God’s voice. I expressed to the individual that if they never heard from me again I needed to be at peace knowing that they recognize His Voice.

Leaps & Bounds!!! Hurdling over any and all obstacles. Standing firm in & on The Promises of God. Fasting & Praying! Trusting God.

I am so Blessed! A true blessing indeed to see such growth!

It’s a Lifestyle! Kingdom Lifestyle…believe that and don’t forget to drink your water. Vetta💌

We have all been hurt. With the blessing of life…each & every day is yet another opportunity for the disappointment of pain. It is a part of life and there is always a purpose for our pain. Knowing this…we Live and we learn. Attempting to avoid hurt is similar to attempting to avoid the common cold. It’s not going to work because folks everywhere and folk full of sickness. Ready and willing to spread the pain and misery. I’ve entered a season of life that once I sense that you take pride in your pain, once I recognize that this is where you want to live and see that you have unpacked your bags and pulled out your badge of misery and pinned it to your heart…I’m out. I’m praying for you from a distance.

Praying that all is well with your soul. Praying that you release a sound that allows healing to be your portion. Praying that you understand that triggers are simply unhealed wounds. Praying that you give in to God’s plan. Praying for your strength. Praying that you realize there is hope. Praying that change is your portion.

I no longer sit at tables that need to be turned over. I’m not entertaining your demons…same as I’m not entertaining my own! I’m not sitting by silently while you talk about folk things that I ought not hear. I’m certainly not sharing my struggles with you, so what’s the point of this meeting? I’m not listening to gossip because my time is to valuable for nothingness and nonsense. I’m staying in my lane…staying to myself and drinking my water.

Anywho…check out our okra harvest for the morning, just enough! Each and every day I harvest these beauties. On yesterday I was able to finally harvest a few from the plants out back. They are nearly as tall as the ones on the side and I love it. On tonight’s menu there will be okra & tomatoes. I could easily purchase some corn to add but patience is key, so I’ll wait for more corn from Vetta’s Garden. I am seeing silk again so it won’t be long.

It won’t be long at all. Change is coming…Receive that & don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding Vetta 😇

Hear Me…

When you have poured into another person. When you have sacrificed…overlooked and understood. When it’s all or nothing and nothing is ever done and they’ve never done nothing.

When you have to hear them but they can’t hear you. When you continue to stay and all they do is walk away…to a world and people who are more important than the problem within.

Trust that they are showing you the value that your voice holds. They are showing you that your feelings are not their concern. If you hurt you best figure it out on your own. And you better not trust them with your heart.

Sometimes…not Just sometimes, but all the time we should be thankful.

Thankful that there is a limit…a limit on what is allowed in the temple. As well, what is allowed to go on in a temple.

Yes, on tonight I am thankful! Thankful that He Answers, Thankful that my God Answers, Thankful that Love Answers. The Very Lover of Our Souls. Sometimes a soft whisper & other times it is like thunder & lighting and it is this way because we all fall down.

We fall down because we are not answering our call. So in His Sovereignty, He grounds us. Planting our feet back on solid ground. Putting us in remembrance of what is and what is not…not important, not necessary, not easy, not hard, not your fault, not your business and not your problem. We gain this wisdom after we have asked God, “Who’s Who?” & As We continue to listen with A Ear to Hear!

He Answers.

Oftentimes, we play our own little mind game with our own little self. Listening with the head & Listening with the heart are 2 different realities. We make our own way long and we make our own way hard…when we listen with our heads. But daily if we put on The Mind of Christ, it will enable us to stand because the vile of the enemy is subtle. The stench is sometimes camaflouged.

Stay Alert… Soberminded and Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water

Vetta 💌

Enjoying This Blessed Path…

Some days are all about revelation. Seeing people for who they are…who they truly are as well as what they believe in. What they will do in your presence is exactly the beginning of what they will do in your absence and then some. Always Remember and Never Forget…that a lie doesn’t care who tells it and a liar’s lips stay ready.

Also, listen to people when they express their thoughts about change. When a person tells you over and over again that they the are not going to change…

BELIEVE THAT!

An individual with no interest in change is toxic. Especially the ones who expect and demand change from you. It is a sad situation to find yourself in and even sadder as you find your way out. Is it easy No…but as far as I am concerned No is a complete sentence and the answer for all the things that disturb your peace.

So on today I encourage you, as I encourage myself to keep your head held high, knowing that you are true to who you are and your values and interpretation of truth. Those who have not learned the lessons of life after a certain age, those who do not value you, those who answer only to themselves, those who think that EVERYTHING that they do is ok and they then turn around and call you the problem are not worthy.

You are responsible for maintaining your own heart and those who continue to do things that make your heart heavy should be removed from your life.

Do this for yourself and Do it…By Any Means Necessary.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

On today I am thankful…I have no countertop space but considering the aromatics in the air, it’s all good. I’ve been drying herbs all weekend and on this morning I finished my last batch.

Thai Basil is the favorite for this season. I add it to everything. It grows in abundance and my favorite thing to do is add it to our Cabbage, the flowers as well and a generous amount indeed. Delish! With the mention of Cabbage, I am pleased with my outside baby. I have my very own cabbage growing for the umpteenth time. Started her inside and she has been outside for 2 weeks now. Enduring 100 degree temps and rainstorms. I Do Not Give Up…and I Do Not murmur & complain. My ears have become super sensitive to the release of sounds that I take in…from others as well as those sounds that I release. We live and we learn that some things and quite a few number of people will never change. They are “stuck in their ways”. But I digress and in keeping my heart healthy I go to my place of peace and I pray. Moments later, I smile while counting a few more chocolate sprinkles tomatoes peeping out. Cherry blings are nonstop. Roma tomatoes appear to be on pause. I guess everyone & everything needs a break from time to time. I know I sure do from time to time. From people, places and things…

Don’t Allow Your Peace To Be Disturbed…No is a complete sentence!

With 4 okra plants producing everyday and 4 more in the back coming along nicely, I’m pleased that I will have plenty for fall. I love okra.

I’ve dug the potato bed up and we have enough red potato for a month perhaps. I planted more russets about 2 weeks ago and they are coming along nicely.

The sweet potato patch is thriving and it’s a task in discipline to refrain from digging around for a glance but patience is key. The sweet potato pies I make are like butter on a cloud. I can’t wait. Thanksgiving 2021, I had only enough at the time for 1 pie. This year I’ll have enough for a bake sale, if I so desire and if we are not traveling. The last 5 Thanksgiving Holidays have been at home because my son visits. He sends me his flight confirmation & the menu and I then for the next few months, spend my happiest moments singing through the house “Hey honey, Jacquez is coming home” and do my happy dance. His presence makes the holidays happy once again. As well, he has definitely redefined Mother’s Day a few times. He certainly is My Sunshine. One of my favorite men. One of God’s Chosen. The kindest soul I have ever known…and patience is definitely among his virtues.

Faith, Hope & Charity is my prayer for him…always & forever 🙏 I could write a book about him… it would have no ending. I can just go on and on and on about my hero. As it should be. We should Always Remember to be present with those we love. Never Forget that love is a two way street!

Thoughts of my son always follow with thoughts of my mother…

All my mind can ever think…I give that over to my heart, where God dwells. I know my Maker…and He makes No misTAkes! I surrender yet again, telling The Father that I just want to be OK! And because He Is The Author and because He scribes upon my heart…The Master Communicator reveals.

And healing is the children’s bread!

He Answers! Love Always Answers…and as He Speaks to me. I hear the sound of the abundance of rain. Showering Down and The Abundance of His Grace is upon us all & His Healing Virtue flowing, a Balm in Gideon and the soul pursues peace once again. Another layer of His Love is my portion. He is The LifeGiver & The very Lover of My Soul.

Always Remember & Never Forget…that it is our responsibility to transform our pain into our power. The realization of our power should drive us and it drives us to & in our purpose. We strive & we struggle…yet we purse.

Mr mentioned something about collard greens and I do believe we have enough…for a small pot, but who really wants a small pot of greens with just enough for one meal and then it’s over. I myself like them the next day once all the flavors have married. Once I suggested we wait his mind began to wonder…

Brentstew is what I will name this one and it is by Mr’s design; his requested ingredients are as follows:

Lump Crabmeat Red Potatoes Mushrooms Bell Pepper Onions Jalapeño Pepper and for my own additional pleasure I’m adding one of each of our peppers we have. Those are the ingredients and I will put it all together for him.. Maybe it will take his mind off the greens for a while.

As the day ends, I have concluded that I’m not sitting at tables that need to be turned over. Life is to precious for every conversation and/or interaction you have with an individual leaves you drained.

Speak Life or we do not need to speak.

Blessings Abounding Vetta

Happy Sunday!!! Today has been all about rest…because Saturday was a day full of love, laughter & celebration.

I have one that I’m sure prays every year that her birthday is forgotten. On top of that she now has a anniversary to celebrate in the same week and that’s where it gets tricky. Her and her sweetheart can easily disappear to celebrate, Vetta is guilty of this as well so I totally understand the beauty of it all. On this year though I didn’t even bother asking for a good date to schedule brunch. I sent out the dates and once confirmed chose our spot. She’s in town…in the country actually and that’s my prayer answered.

She had no idea because I’m just that good. I turned our normal brunch date into a surprise birthday brunch. I Sure Did!!! And all she did was smile. Not one for surprises but she loves me,, so I can get a pass! The birthday girl & I are the only gardeners in the group; so we went straight in on our passion.

Garden Girl Talk!!!Chitter Chatter of the best kind! 20 plus years of brunches & lunches…dessert runs, laughter and tears…birthdays, anniversaries, road trips, labor rooms & the scars to prove it.

And so much more!!!

Brunch was @ Amivida Coffee Roasters. I left the garden early and took a stroll on the Marina before the ladies arrived. Then a quick glance at the farmers market. I mentioned to someone that it looks like my kitchen counters & the bartop with veggies & herbs… EVERYWHERE!

I didn’t visit all of the vendors but I saw what I needed to…everyone is out selling what I’m already growing or making or either…I’m not interested! I’m not one for crowds so there is No need to fight through crowds for nothing. I’m still all about my 6 feet…and I am not offended if you generously allow me more.

ANYWHO…

Nothing like growing your own food…and if you can’t or simply don’t desire to at least look into some personal growth in your life. Something as simple as being appreciative of life can change the perspective.

I’m learning that as the days, months & years go by…some people will never change. Never have anything positive to say about anything or anyone; moreso they have about as much interest in your good news as you have in their bad. It is endless!

I’ve decided that I’m just going to love everyone…even the one’s that don’t like me and most importantly I’m going to do so because The Father says so.

I’m so done with the pity party vibes…I genuinely want to celebrate. And not that we can’t have bad times or situations happening. It’s just how we approach each obstacle and how we respond. I am thankful that I am living my best life regardless of trials and not allowing life’s downtime to dictate my mood or what & how things exit my mouth.

The tongue can be sharp and ugly, leaving a bad taste in the mind & heart of those who have not learned the technique of listening.

I Am So Thankful…

I am blessed to have a ear to hear God’s Heart…

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Life is full of ups & downs…ins & outs…beginnings & endings.

The old…The new! Rainy seasons, heavy clouds & His Rainbows too. Hold Fast! Trust that God’s Timing is just that…Exact!!! This rainbow of fruits is exactly what I need for this weekend. Monday is restock day. This is just another of those things that makes the heart smile.

The rambutan as you can see has already been sampled & it was refreshing. Then my special treats straight from Vetta’s Garden; chocolate sprinkles tomatoes. Definitely my favorite of all our tomatoes. So many goodies & I deserve them all.

He is Jehovah Nissi.

All that I am…. Is The Great I Am. All that He Sees in me. All that He created me to be…His Perfect Will. I am unapologetically His mouthpiece.

Desire to hear from The Father…and He will speak to you. He Answers! But you must have a ear to hear God’s Heart.

We must discipline ourselves to hear…in the stillness as well as in the chaos. Because God is always speaking.

Sooo… As we travel the roads of life, there will be seasons that things might not be as clear to us. In these times, we must simply use wisdom…that can be as simple as pulling over and waiting on a sign from God. And then still, proceeding with caution!

Completing your assignments. Loving & Letting God handle rest.

Blessings Abounding & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water. Vetta 💌

It’s said that the early bird gets the worm…

I decided that I’d put a twist to that and start the weekend early. Mr is in full agreement. So here’s to Thoughtful Thursday…I’m praying for a quick trip for this weekend but either way it will be grand.

A quick coaching session on Friday morning. Brunch on Saturday and quite possibly a visit to a church service with one of my mentees. She informed me today that she wants back on schedule and God had already sent a word that many from a particular season would be returning…so my Pooh is back on track. So very proud of her. God has something special in the works for her. Something special…so special, that it makes the heart smile!!! My prayer is that she be in divine position so that she may receive all The Father has.

I’m So Excited about what God is doing in this season and so to celebrate I reinvented Bagels & Lox

Bagels & Lox Vetta’s Style

When you find the time…toast up a Asiago Bagel on the panini maker with a light spread of Irish Cream Butter. Then a generous layer of Philadelphia’s Best; been around since 1972, just like Vetta… don’t you just love their cream cheese? Smoked Norwegian Salmon Slices (flame roasted), thin slices of the green skin avocado, my very own lemon cucumber, red onions, banana peppers w/ a drizzle of the juices, fresh havasu peppers, fresh garlic, cherry bling tomatoes, fresh mexican tarragon, fresh lemon thyme, fresh cilantro, fresh lime & lemon juice, a drizzle of avocado oil and fresh cracked pepper with as many capers as you can stand!!! Bon Appétit. I just love having access to so much of the freshness. Straight from Vetta’s Garden helping create Vetta’s Version of life’s little delights.

THERE IS NOTHING MORE EXACT THAN GOD’S PERFECT TIMING!

I just love eggplant. Mr will have nothing to do with them once they are cooked lol. But they are a sight for sore eyes as they hang from the vine he says. I’m contemplating a recipe…garlic, honey & Vetta’s herb blend w/ some unsalted butter. I’ll let you know how it turns out. I pray God’s Blessings overtake you. Enjoy your weekend and don’t forget to drink your water. Vetta 💌

What a wonderful weekend and back home safe. An hour time difference makes it easy to be home before midnight…having God with you makes it possible!!!

On Saturday morning, my husband’s uncle Lester was laid to rest. After the repass, we went home, grabbed some fruits & waters and at this point the beach gear stays in the car, so we made our way to one of our hideouts. Neither of us really like crowds, so we only listen to the sounds for a while. On tonight it was Koncrete Soul and they are wonderful. But let’s be honest; nothing satisfies quite like the sounds of the winds and the waters and the glimpse of God’s creatures gliding through His blue skies listening to their chitter chatter…other than unveiling the clouds that hide the moons full splendor yet still be in awe of its presence as only a sliver. We did not bring the telescope this round. My drone sits on my desk…The No Fly Zone Days of My Life…Geesh! Still the sky was bright with more stars than the mind could imagine. Here. There. Everywhere. Twinkle Twinkle indeed & In the darkness, I trust that our prayers did reach heaven. Tonight it is beautiful. One must remember that things done in the dark will come to the light…And the prayers of righteous availeth much!

The air; finally cool on the skin & laden with the fragrance of the gulf. Sandy sand between my toes like always, as we walk the waters edge…and these lovely little crabs seem to love sandy sand toes at the nights end as well.

THE PEACE!!!

God is a Revealer. Things that our blind eyes cannot see, He shows us…when He knows we can handle it…when He knows we are ready. Ready to let go and let God. Whom we lose becomes unimportant & those we gain become gold…refined… purified…washed in His Waters & dried by His Winds…& His Words are like fluids; quenching the thirst and may we never forget to drink our water and in reading The Word may it speak to you!

Prophetic Whispers!

Prophetic Reminders!

Prophetic Gestures!

Prophetic Artistry!

Prophetic Voices!

Prophetic Words!

Prophetic Peace!

And when life becomes by invitation only…this is what you will know as well as have.

I invited a few women on a journey with me this year…only one accepted the invitation. It has been phenomenal. God is blessing her in spite of…healing…revealing and her heart is so full as well as open. She is a testiment of His Works. Mighty & Powerful He Is… removing the struggle out of her business and I’m believing God for more open doors and opportunities for growth.

GOD IS ABLE!!!

On the subject of growth…Vetta’s Garden is thriving & surviving this Florida heat. This is my sweet potato patch…I’m so ready! The Father has provided more water & nutrients than we could have paid for and that is what has kept the garden going. So many have lost their summer gardens and feel discouraged with fall planting upon us; but I say go for it. Be encouraged to keep on putting in the work. Continue to learn to grow…in life as well as the garden. You never know what might pop up or whom…

So Be Ready!!!

The Great Architect will definitely put you in the room with those willing & ready to connect. In His Perfect Timing; Our purpose begins to unfold. Right there in front of our eyes and for all the world to witness.

He certainly moves in mysterious ways…Believe That & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water!

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

My husband took this of me one morning when I stepped out to greet Vetta’s Garden. I am so proud of her…our garden that is. She’s grown in leaps and bounds, that along with The Father’s Blessings & Blessings Abounding; Vetta’s Garden is doing just fine and so is Vetta. And it is just brilliant the way things have fallen in place. A branch found it’s way in the garden and just in the nick of time. The lemon cucumber have outgrown their little cage I created…expressing that they will not be contained. I totally understand that and so, I let them find their way to that fallen branch. I see exactly what God is doing. In my garden…Through my garden He speaks to me. His Presence is with me. He carries me and I carry His Glory. In my garden I have created & cultivated a place of peace. Peace within my garden is peace within my self. And it is self that we must make peace with. With each revelation, each level of elevation, with each layer of healing…within every battle and through each and every storm; we must trust that our peace will be disturbed…it is human nature!

BUT GOD!!!

He has given us a way out. Out of ourselves. Out of our logic. Our own selfish reasons…away Out of our very own madness.

The Way Out Is Surrender! He Is The Way Out! It is to The Creator of Heaven & Earth that we must Surrender. Nothing…No One. Only Our God! God’s people. God’s children. Yeshua’s Glory Carriers. Clothed in The Glory of His Essence…The Sweetness of Eternal Blessings & The Aroma of Sweet Parfums…to smell like Blessings that engulf the rooms that one enters as The Greatest Woodsman I know…opens door after door after door.

As I write, I see double doors…Red Doors, The Wood chiseled to perfection and with every flaw…it’s beauty captured by the eye. The previews, Vetta loves it when The Father Reveals…I love it how it Reveals my own heart…when He shows me; that He Answers. When the answer is No. I am thankful for His Mercies in my own life, knowledgeable of His Grace and More trusting of His Plan than ever before. Forever grateful that there is Healing in His Name. Day or night; Our Savior Our Jesus our Sweet Sweet Jesus Our Lord is just a whisper away. And when He Whispers back; He knows just right like how to bless… His Trees of Righteousness, planting them on solid ground. On God’s Earth to bring Glory to His Name!

My smile is still the same, only now my husband says I’ve added a certain hand gesture with each new discovery…each new bloom as well as each new lesson. Always Remember and Never Forget; there are no mistakes in the garden or in life…only lessons. Beautiful, Unforgettable and Never Ending Life Changing, Soul Bearing, Trial and Error…Win Some… Lose Some… All we can do lessons. And all we can really do is breathe and in doing so whisper His Name.

Call on Yeshua!

His Love is Unconditional.

His Word is Not.

BELIEVE THAT AND DON’T FORGET TO DRINK YOUR WATER.

New Seasons Blessings to you all.

Vetta 🙏

Recently I was gifted 4 of these beauties. I’m invited back to enjoy as many as I can handle. I dare not overindulge…Blessings Abounding indeed.

The Trumpet Lilly will gladly reproduce and I will have more than enough! I normally let my plant babies get adjusted before I put the spotlight on them but I just couldn’t resist. AND she had something to say on this night…This particular one is eye level when I walk out to visit the garden. I’m 5’8. She has a sister that is taller than my husband, he is 5’11. He says she must be atleast 7ft. I say she’s reaching for the stars. I can’t wait to get a few in the ground. This will happen at first light.. They love full sun & with the temperatures here in Florida they are in their element and thriving. My vehicle registered 105 last week and so…this will be their Happy Place. Gotta love The Sunshine State!

The blooms release the sweetest aromatics. I love coming out front. It’s intoxicating…lavender, mints, lemon balm, rosemary and the list goes on. Now adding this in the air and for the touch. The Senses! Allowing the air of fragrance to calm and heal all within. The Father knows exactly what we need. He knows when we need it and He answers.

On tonight, He answer yet again. The answer was No and I do believe that I am glad about it. Another level of freedom. Another Release. Another Breakthrough. Another yes, that He said No to.

And I am so thankful. Because I am so tired. It is terribly difficult to process yet again that a heart has been revealed. Praying that people will change. Laying out before God for their breakthrough. Fasting. Praying. Bombarding Heaven on their behalf. Searching. Seeking. Revealing. Pouring…Into empty vessels…REBELLIOUS vessels. PRiDe FULL vessels of eGO. AND the STENCH…

like a seREpent!!!

And He says, NO MORE! THE ANSWER IS NO!!!

And the hEARt heAls & iT breaks & IT HeAls. He is like a balm…an explosion all on the inside of me. Purifying me…of All that I do not need. Echoing in my soul. My feet feel like roots, planting in Him & yet still growing. I am soaking in His Goodness. My portion from my God & He makes me wiser. Providing so that I may create my dwelling of peace both Inside & Out!!!

This One single Bloom was just destined to Fall. She’ll do her thing for a while on the inside…But those that made it through…those that the trip did not even phase…a 4 hour trip they took back to Vetta’s Garden. I myself even went through because I didn’t want to shock them on the ride with the air on I drove with the windows down and sunroof open!!! My vehicle registered 98 on that day. Thank you Father for the rain showers…I will do it all over again on tomorrow. Blessed coming & Blessed going I shall be! And He will be my God.

The DoorKeeper. On yesterday morning I saw a red door. By that afternoon I was walking up to 2 red doors. Prophetic Reminders from My Daddy! It is still double for my trouble and I’ll wait!

WAIT UPON THE LORD!!!

I Will Gladly Wait…

One must be willing to go through…to receive the rewards. And going through means, going through more than what You are going through. Selfishness is vile. One of my favorites said recently “It’s the one’s you prayed through, the enemy will use to put you through, but don’t you dare quit behind this hit”

And I say, “Well Said”

Then suddenly; if only for one moment more you are able…to endure.

I am thankful that The Father has equipped me to see…To see beyond. To see Behind…Behind the Mask.

The Father knows. He is setting every wrong thing in it’s place. His purpose carriers will Enter In… Room after room room…rooms flowing with milk & honey & coated in sweetness. Established concerning His Will. Monopolized with His Glory. His Presence is like a Flood. And this is The Hit that my heart desires we all receive.

Preparing for The Harvest, Vetta 😇

This Is My Now…

My love is feeling better. He sat out front for a few early this morning. His fever broke around 3am…just as I was contemplating heading out to grab up a few greens. Home remedies are the best. He requested apple sauce for breakfast but we were out of fresh apples, so I did a food run. He is now resting.

💙JEHOVAH RAPHA💙

I’ve harvested more turmeric on this Matchless Monday. I used the last piece we had inside while he has been under the weather making up teas. I see more popping up as well…concession planting is a whole thing and the garden is always full of surprises. I hadn’t had a real conversation within the garden on this morning and as a result I overlooked some goodness.

Say Happy Independence Day to our watermelon babies. Not sure of the variety. Not really concerned. I just want them to be healthy & delicious. Last year we had yellow and red flesh, so of course I saved the seeds and didn’t even try to label them because what fun is that 😉 The pot has six babies that have appeared along side this one and I am thankful that we will have more than enough.

I moved our cantaloupe a few days ago and she likes the new spot better. A nice trim and she may show off a little herself. I Am hopeful.

My drone arrived over the weekend…without the charger but it’s now “in route”. I’m okay with that being a reality these days, as well as No Fly Zone becoming a hashtag. I’m excited to get more practice in because it’s been a while…my crush crashed our last one while teaching me how to fly. He loves me, so he simply ordered another one.

You’d think folk wouldn’t do certain things but NO…this is my husband’s little ride. It was actually a Valentines Day gift to me in 2018. It’s been in his possession though since I got him a pretty cool birthday gift that same year…a very nice vehicle and long story short…Basically we traded cars and I drive the Benz and he handles the Bimmer.

Now I will never for the life of me understand why a person would stop by here and remove one of his back light covers…just one. I guess that’s the only one they needed though 🤷

Life has its challenges! We have decided we will take them as they come. I’m just thankful that he is feeling better. His work has him inside of homes and that’s one of the easiest way to get sick as far as I’m concerned.

I’m so appreciative that my mother & father instilled in me the importance of cleanliness. Gwen did not play the radio! Five children & two adults, not to mention one of my aunts came to live with us as a teenager and our home stayed clean and organized. Inside as well as outside. There is no excuse for filthiness outside of physical limitations and that is not a sure all for me anymore after watching a young lady (double amputee) online clean her entire house! Outside of a possible mental illness and your house is nasty and unkempt, you are just nasty and lazy in my book and if you get up & clean up and trust me you will begin to feel better. I have witnessed it happen as well as assisted those that wanted change. It’s a beautiful thing to see a person smile a new smile and there is nothing like praising and dancing and loving and thanking God in clean quarters.

I can hear the abundance of rain outside my window and a cough from across the hall…both sounds are music to Vetta’s ears.

I pray that you understand that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Check out our Lemon Cucumber. She has been thriving with all of the rain. We were to be going to my “Happy Place” for the weekend so of course I asked ahead of time for The Creator to take care of the garden while we were to be away. That request was BIG to me but EASY for God…sometimes we leave home and don’t know how to return but she is thriving! I just shared a video of her last week with a friend who has started a small farm. She was just a baby then & look at her now. He was questioning his cucumber plant, so I shared a little knowledge with him. My husband was like you should start a class to help people out…hmmmm!!! We then reminisced about a year that I had a bathtub full of cucumber and how babygirl and I use to eat them all up raw without pickling not one lol. I’ve promised him that this year will be different and I will pickle him some. He is keeping me at my word and has become very hands on lately, even saving his banana peels for me. I knew he was paying attention & I knew it wouldn’t be long. 😇

What a lovely Sunday evening. The fireworks have started…again. Oh Happy Day is on the way! There is a property that we manage that is vacant and I had thought we’d be able to sit on the rooftop balcony and enjoy the views on tomorrow night but I’m not sure. My love is still not feeling it as of now. I am thankful though that he is now actually going to sit out front for a while. Progress is Progress!

This is his 4th time not feeling well in the past couple of years. I am shocked that I am not feeling down at all because when he gets sick…we get sick. I made tea for him; lavender, chamomile, echinacea, gingermint, mullien leaf & turmeric is my staple and all grown in Vetta’s Garden. This week’s batch had some extras though. I visited the garden and made it extra special for him…because he is extra special to me. I need him feeling better!

I’m thankful to God that I’m not clocking in Anywhere! With the way they sprinkle 19 around, illness is everywhere and I’m able to be at home with him instead of worrying about how he is doing while at some job. He is the perfect patient. Drinking his tea, OJ and certainly his water.

Another visit to the garden and a trip to Winn Dixie for chicken thighs because no matter how exceptional the vegetable soup is…he will need a shred of chicken. He loved it!!!

I realized on today that I’m a little spoiled. My husband handles so much. I’m capable but he so often just tells me to rest that it seems to have become my way. I’m blessed to be able to spend my mornings with him before he starts his day. Blessed to spend as much time as I can stand in the garden. Preparing meals for us from out back and out front. Overloading myself this year with classes and trainings…it’s been so intense. I have so many projects going on and I love it. And I get paid to post on my social media now, Facebook as well as Instagram. How neat! Just posting my day, if I choose. Doing Me! That’s the blessing of it all. I don’t keep up with trends. I’m not twerking. Not pranking. Not with my face stuck in the camera every other day looking for approval, acceptance or likes, with an abundance nothingness for content. Some of the things I see; “UNREEL”

Just sharing my view of God’s Glory and The Beauty of His Creations, getting my little money regardless…I don’t need one like from no one to get my coins…because The Father knows. He knows and He cares & I trust Him. I trust that He will always be Jireh…

The Impossible…He will answer and when He does others will see. Then you will see…just how ugly folks are…just what they think of you…and the blessings that have your name on it will drive them to utter ugliness unheard…unless you have a ear to hear!!! But it’s all good! Ignore the chitter-chatter and those that question your NOW…those that want to know how; I’d just remind them that questioning God blessing me will Never get you blessed. I’d also remind them that I went through my hell and they’ll have to go through their own in order to receive.

Remember that so many more blessings are on the way…in this rainy season.

Receive that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Finally…patience is definitely a virtue and those things worth waiting on are most definitely beautiful. On last year not one bloom. I contemplated digging her up and trust me I’m so thankful that I did not.

Early this morning I was bragging on our cucumbers and I’m pretty sure she overheard and that is what nugged her to surface. She was laid back chillaxing amongst the gingermint. I gently lead her to the surface so that all eyes can see because she certainly draws the eye.

The Rain is on it’s way back!!! I’ve done a small harvest of corn, herbs, garlic, and peppers. Tomatoes & bell peppers are ok until after the rain. Collards are recuperating nicely after the shock of their move. Mid July I’ll have enough for dinner…along with a few okra!!!

No helicopter ride…No horseback ride…No boating or kayaking this weekend. But I am thankful for the rain. I am thankful that we have peace at our home and we don’t need to be out and about to be “happy” or fulfilled. Just as it should be.

HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS!!!

Blessings Abounding! Receive That & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water.

Vetta 💌

It’s Friday night! Something about this moon thing…Mr has the bass just right! Vetta loves it…Music! All night long! The Twirl…along with all that The Father will reveal…On last night we added some of my husband’s music to a video I made…Fun! I mentioned to him recently that I would like to not have to write, I do not own the rights so often. He answers! To celebrate I made a new dish for him that he envisioned and I made happen. A simple request.

Purple Potato Melody w/ Fried Scallop Garnish

Sautéed red potatoes, onions, bell peppers, sweet peppers, mushrooms, jalapeño, havasu peppers and gypsy sweet peppers. Rosemary, german thyme, thai basil all fresh and all except the mushrooms are from Vetta’s Garden. I pan fried the scallops and topped the potatoes with them…Delish! Never fear, I’m going to continue research and I will grow my own mushrooms as well and why not? Anyone can grow… anything…even themselves and their character; if they desire to. Character is important to God. That’s why often time He doesn’t open doors…why others are blessed…why others receive favor…over and over again. Blessing after Blessing after Blessing & Blessings Abounding.

OBEDIENCE!!!

Regardless of how others view it…Live Life. Living in your world, while yet living in this world because this world is not our home. It is to filthy to be our paradise. Temporary indeed. Same as people. Here today…gone the next…but sticking around for the worst of the worst, in love with every day of the dread that is called the head. Painted pretty…but a dirty world we are all just trying to live in. But the dirt…the stench that comes along with it is at times unbelievable!

Stinking Thinking & Not knowing who you are in God brings about and brings out all those with intentions that are merely exposed insecurities.

We should all be out here getting it…whatever your it is. Get it! That’s it! Get It…Getting while the getting is good…Get good at getting it too. Leveling up…Crushing goals with your foot on the head, neck and back of the enemy.

Jealous is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Digest that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Vetta loves you!

I’m blogging…my reminder is on. It’s not that I forget. I’m always writing, I just need to get better at publishing. I’ve decided to share a meal with you all. Stuffed Aloha Pepper, quinoa & ground beef w/ onions and mushrooms as the filling. Sautéed squash & asparagus w/ lemon. The aloha Pepper is full of the sweetest flavors. Delicious both raw and cooked…what a treat. I’m growing green, yellow & red bell pepper and I can’t wait to get a few of these aloha seed in the ground and see what pops up.  I’ve already harvested two beautiful green and used them both. One red is already settled on the bush, which is full of flowers.  I’m so pleased. The yellow went through a little trauma during a storm recently and is on her way back nicely.

In the background are green onions, garlic a few herbs and some tomatoes from Vetta’s Garden. I only have four tomato plants this year. On last year I had about eight different varieties in order to be able to share with my Godmother but Dr said no more tomatoes for her…but I’ve got plenty other goodies in the garden to share.

Yet I have to brag on these special baby tomatoes..chocolate sprinkles. I am so excited about tasting one once ripened. I’ve been popping the cherry bling tomatoes for snacks and adding them to salads. A couple big boys but yet only a few flowers on the Cherokee purple tomato…late bloomer. No worries though as I gather for spaghetti sauce those ready to be crushed…FOR THE GREATER PURPOSE!!!

I’m super excited about tomorrows coaching session. To witness her progress…her excitement. She is proud of herself and so am I. I love progress. I love growth. One step at a time. One day at a time.

Always Remember, we all do well with light, love and liquid now don’t forget to drink your water…

Never Forget…THE GREATER PURPOSE!

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Another blessed day. I spent the first part of the morning in the garden. Having that little talk about getting use to all of the rain. It’s just that time of the year. Zucchini Z has decided to push through with a few flowers regardless of the downpours. Cucumber and yellow squash are still hiding. Sweet potato leaves are spreading like love should and I’m holding myself back from any digging. I want them as big as they can get because I can cook a sweet potato for dinner and be happy. I’ve already been plundering for potatoes and came up with several russets that made me smile. Ginger is popping up like popcorn and I love it, especially with my teas. My happy dance today took place because of my corn. I just had to pop one open and peep. All kind of goodies in the garden and I’m so excited.

It’s always a special time when we get a preview…of all the blessings and favor and healing and deliverance and breakthroughs and miracles; that The Father has for us. All the living that is left for us to do.

To Celebrate Life…each and every day. Still standing. Still praising. Still reaching. Still teaching. Still learning. Still growing. Still supporting. Still sharing. Still caring. Still loving.

I pray each and every day that The Father continues to speak to my heart and speak to my spirit; so that I can be a blessing to others. This is something that I crave…blessing others, supporting others. It’s not a hard thing to do either.

On today, I blessed my love with dinner at one of our spots. Seoul Red Barn. The Lumpia are delicious and so is the rest of the menu. Chicken Terryaki is what Mr had on today and he will have it for lunch tomorrow as well because the portions are nice. Then a nice walk home for Vetta…sometimes my husband just looks as though why? Why are you walking around town as though we don’t have three vehicles. I just look back, smiling and waving. “I’ll see you at home honey”.

And that’s that…I’m out and about. Walking and talking to The One Who does all things well.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water 💌

What a wonderful start to the day. Inspite of water aerobics being rescheduled, I’m having a great day. It’s sometimes a thing to remember, but school is out and the streets seem empty without the hustle and bustle of school traffic. This morning I had a half of Pitaya Fruit…delicious. The other half will be my late night snack.

I had a wonderful conversation with one of my mentees this morning. God has definitely been showing out in this individuals life. Leaning in…obedience and a pure heart. The perfect recipe for favor and those abounding type blessings. The entire year so far has been incredible and I can not wait to see the blessings that are about to overtake them. Proud…So very proud. It makes it all worth it, when you have poured into another and they have been intentional.

I only have two mentees this year and I am proud of them both. Oddly enough, they both have said to me that they are proud of me as well. Vetta has definitely been trying…one day at a time and I am thankful that they are seeing that I’m not just giving them assignments but I’m being given them as well and we are crushing it.

My coachees are crushing it as well. One day at a time. One task at a time. Progress is Progress and any steps back are only to help us get our footing so that we take off when the whistle blows. I call our days together Fun Friday, because coaching isn’t always so easy or such fun. Always remember that wisdom is often tucked away until you realize that you have need of it.

And because Vetta was in need of sushi for lunch, my crush made it happen. I’ve tanned enough for the day. I’ll be tucked away inside for the rest of the day. Checking on Vetta’s Garden after my nap.

Another remarkable berry. The Thai Eggplant is as pretty as a button but is one tough fruit. I had plans to lightly toss them into a stir fry but maybe next time.

This little berry is full of seeds…giving the muscles of mastication a real nice facial workout. Not much taste in their raw state but I have an idea for a fragrant bath for them to rest in. A couple of Havasu, a few Sweet Gypsy and a Cubanelle; a few sprigs of Thai Basil, Purple Basil, Mexican Tarragon and Lemon Thyme…all peppers & herbs from Vetta’s Garden. A little rest & then a tasteful delight. I love a special snack.

I am one to become very bored with food. I have to try new things. I couldn’t imagine going through life not having the opportunity to try new things. Tantalizing the taste buds.

What new thing have you tried to excite the taste buds?

Remember, life is an adventure…

Blessings Abounding

There is nothing quite like a trip to the market for weekend snacks.

The Java Apple has many names. I like best, the love Apple. This little edible berry makes my taste buds experience a little taste of pear as well as apple. I like to drizzle a little raw honey on for a slice of heaven. The rose apple is not only a great late night snack; it is rich in vitamins A & C and provides calcium. Need a little help improving your metabolism? Add these beauties to your diet. They also help boost immunity, hydrate the body and aid in digestion.

These weekend…is all about my fruit. Enjoy yours…I’m certainly enjoying mine.

Blessings Abounding

And because fame only last about 15 minutes, today’s star is our Thai Basil. She whispered something about coming in the house…I assured her that she’d be inside soon enough. I’m thinking about cooking a Thai dish so let’s see if coming inside the house means she’s interested in just sitting around looking cute or is she willing to contribute to Vetta’s well being. I’ll be removing those pretty little flowers before they open. Once they run to seed the flavor will change drastically and become bitter, like any other herb. They are perfect for a garnish. I’d like to try a tomato & cucumber salad and add some thai basil for the win. This is the first year I’ve successfully had thai basil and I’m excited.

Such a versatile herb. I love them all. I’m eyeballing the holy basil and she’s troubled about somethings like us all from time to time. Sweet, Spicy, Purple, and a Pesto Perpetuo Basil. I do believe that will do…for the basil…for now!

And because we like things spicy at Camp Coley, I will be debuting the Havasu Pepper, jalapeños, the lone pepper and garlic. Green beans & green onion will find their way into the mix as well. I’m going to do something special with those cherry bings.

Vetta had a little help with her homework from last night. My love on last night and then my cousin this morning. Now I can play around in the garden all morning…my peace! Then a little rest before tonight’s class.

Ya’ll know who my husband is…but don’t we all have way too many cousins in life? It’s hard to keep up sometimes, but not with this one. I’m old school but she just reminded me new school works too…

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While you are doing that, I’ll be heading out to my Schwinn. An hour of peddling and I never leave the back porch. Enjoy Life 😉

Today was a good day. Didn’t do much walking but I did get to walk around Walmart while I waited for some of the crowd to thin out…never one for crowds. I got in a work out though…in the garden. I’m on break now watching Mr work on Butterfly, his bimmer…his baby…men and their cars!

I dug 12 holes for transplants…all herbs. From seed, I also started more basil both sweet and spicy. Coriander in both the front and back because I love it. Of course, I’ve shared my gingermint experiment and my plan is to just let it continue to spread by properly preparing the soil, which I did. Also from seed; spearmint, peppermint and lemon balm. Even found a few lavender seeds and tossed them into the mix!

I have marigolds returning and something pretty & pink that flew over from a neighbor and I’ve already thanked her. I took it upon my self to also drop a few nasturtium seed here and there. I’ve recently put one of the citronella outback and she’s not happy…not happy at all. Life!

Our little neighbor Big Man came over for a while. He has a new scooter and knows how to ride it…He’s two but there’s nothing terrible about him. We chatted as he showed us how his Spiderman scooter lights up…he is so eager to learn. He heads over to the car with my husband like, let’s finish this up and play and follows him around the car foot to foot…I took him outback and pushed him around a little in his jeep. The battery is dead, so when I suggest we go back to the front he gives me this look of innocence and mischief perfectly paired!!! Vetta has faith that the innocence outweighs the mischief…and that goes for us all…just as I have faith that these seeds are going to produce…I just believe! And just as one plants seeds and they grow, as one reads The Word, it grows within us…becoming a part us, just as God intended!

The Evidence…Faith Is!

And that’s how life goes, all we can do is plant the seed and see if it grows. I’ve planted some seed lately and I’m trusting God to either have it grow or just say no. I’m just one to try and give 2nd chances and 3rd. I know when God has a person in my path it’s for me to bless them as well as them bless me…sometimes those blessings are lessons…lessons hard learned.

I’m simply at a point of obedience that if God says bless…I’m blessing. It’s up to the other to receive. I am so thankful that God has anointed me to receive…anointed me to believe…

Vetta believes there is nothing to hard for God and just leaves it at that…enjoying the breeze and the birds…and the sounds!!! Sooths my soul, making it easier to wait…wait on change…wait on things to get better…wait on these seeds and easier to wait on God.

What are you doing while you’re waiting on God?

To awake for prayer and hear the subtleness of sprinkles from Heaven’s clouds and as that prayer increases so does His rain and sprinkles down on Vetta’s Garden…April showers bring May flowers. I can now see the sun peeking out.

On Wednesday I was out and about and though the Sun was shining brightly I still managed to capture both a rainbow and the number 8 in God’s Skies. Biblical Mathematics tells us that the number eight always means new beginnings or a new order of things. The new in contrast to the old. The very thought of resurrection and the rainbow God’s promise, yet fullfilled. Igniting hope and preparing our spirits for a brand new start. I love a new start and I’ve always loved rainbows, so much so that I had a rainbow wedding…assigning each of my lovely ladies a color and because Vetta does things the way that she likes them they all got to walk with their husbands. Oh What a Beautiful Day at the park; with just the perfect breeze off of the water. I’ve been asked a few times why the rainbow wedding as though something was wrong with that, I simply remind those that have forgotten that the rainbow is God’s promise to God’s people and that we His and that’s that. A wedding is a new start so why not demonstrate God’s Glory, His Promise at the start of our new life together but that’s just me.

Also on Wednesday I purchased three new garden babies, yes only three. My husband thought it strange as we left the nursery especially when I spotted an elusive beauty and walked right past her whispering “I’ll be back for you”…I’d been very intentional on this purchase, yes indeed. A new way of doing things, a new adventure, a new perspective, a new culinary experience, a new dream…placed in the Heart by The Father. The new dynamic…a new chapter in our beautiful books of life and as the pages turn… I strolled through that nursery as though I was walking through paradise…the thought of the Garden of Eden where every need is met and the sounds of satisfied souls. In honor of satisfied souls I decided on my three new garden babies and in honor of my sister friend, the sweetest dream girl I know; a Cherokee Purple Tomato, a Gypsy Sweet Pepper and in honor of all the newness in her life, the Havasu Hot Pepper. As I was researching this hot pepper, the Havasu I found the meaning was literally blue-green water, so that’s settled that and she’ll catch that. I’m going to do something authentic and grand with these baby boys. Now the Cherokee Purple Tomato, bursting with its own distinctive flavor is rich and smokey…it’s so pretty that you almost don’t want to eat it but you do and you do so because it’s full of all the good things that our bodies need…vitamin C, especially in the pulp near the seeds. Vitamin K for strong bones. Vitamin A to help maintain a good immune system and promote good eye health. And because we always save the best for last even though this is all good, we have the Gypsy Sweet Pepper, now this is the result of a Bell Pepper & an Italian Bull Horn crossing paths and there you have it…Vetta knows some phenomenal women oh and for those of you who don’t like the Heat this will be perfect for you, it’s a sweet flavor with no heat because sometimes we want to be on the chill side & that’s ok & even though she’s not a hot mama she loves God’s Sunshine…kind of reminds me of my sister friend, the beauty that love soaking up God’s rays, so she’ll find her place in the garden so that she can get full sun. I’ve got a pretty little grow bag waiting on her and it’s right near the potatoes and an update; those Russets are doing what they do and in full bloom; flowering indicates that the vines have enough leaf area to begin forming the tubers and did you know that within a few weeks of glimpsing those pretty little flowers it’s harvest time. We all know potatoes are symbolic of love; always and forever and that’s how it goes and goes well together and that’s life and the things of love. I feel so bless y’all, to know that God is indeed doing a new thing…a new thing in the me, a new thing in the lives of all those I hold dear.

My heart is in flutters…I feel butterflies… oh the things of love… the loves of our lives…the days of our lives, they are beautiful and crazy and calm and peaceful. Oh so peaceful, just lovely because there is always peace in the valley…valley’s deep with so much love. Love that overflows and flows like grace. Oh my God, this man love me because I am a beautiful beautiful mess…a hot mess…but he says that I am his mess, so that’s that…so to my sister, be a mess…be your man’s hot mess…he will have it no other way…be his damsel…just for fun because…we are never really in distress. Be his mess sis…he loves it and he loves you…he is on fire…I see twin flames…the glow matches perfectly…oh the things of love. Madness and you are pure radiance…if you were indeed a real life mermaid…he makes you want to find an ocean somewhere and swim until there ain’t no swim left…and the oceans…if those ocean walls could talk, the things they hear, as one swims…bathing in His Waters…basking in His Glory…washing away all of our sins, blameless. Daily baptisms in His love… Clean Waters…the refreshers course…be his mess honey golden girl…Mrs Thang strut your blessed self baby girl…be your man’s mess…a hot mess she is…but aren’t we all though? I feel a dance…I see a twirl….get it girl…twirl…I see you. Handle your twirl. A new twirl in a new world…a new thing in the lives of all those willing to be a part of His Plan…so much is happening. So much beautifully orchestrated madness and it’s all for our good, believe that. I just love the anticipation, the excitement while waiting on God. That Supernatural surge one feels in their Spirit truly overriding all our moments of doubt, unbelief, sadness…all the things that we all experience from time to time. These Supernatural Surges most often have me wandering…caught up perhaps but then I put on the mind of Christ. The belt of truth…The breastplate of righteousness…my feet ready y’all. The shield of faith…the helmet & the sword. Because I am preparing for the serenity, that madness, The VERY Passion of our Christ… thankful that he both died and rose for us. Our sweet Jesus, our Savior, our Lord and His Promise…sometimes just sometimes that promise is over in a foreign land; glowing, smiling from ear-to-ear, wedded bliss indeed…The look…The look of a woman in love…the look of a woman being loved just as The Father intended and it is a beautiful thing. She is the hand and he is the glove, she is always covered and she knows this. As he inhales…you, breathe and let him have His way and you let go of all of your pain, relax those thoughts and heal just as The Father intended. Be made whole my sister…and know that he comes with freedom…now be baptized in His love & you’ll never drown in His goodness…he is so full of grace… distinguished grace…a life of lessons yet to learn and share with you and only you. Tender moments…. Tender Mercies and blessings, blessings abounding to you and Hallelujah…it’s good good to the last drop…Ya’ll please don’t forget to drink your water…Peace.

A pleasant walk this morning before service…Tyndall Parkway was quiet. I love the quiet & the calm. I had planned on walking to Winn Dixie to purchase some fruit but of course, I left home with no dinero! This would as well be problematic when I realized I would miss an opportunity to take a break and stop by the laundromat…to play Ms Pac-Man!!! I will be tickled pink if my husband ever actually finds me one. I Am hopeful 😇

On the way back I spotted a berry bush along the brush. A few berries sided-eyed me as I leaned in to get a better view. They looked delicious. More motivation and inspiration. We had blueberries, raspberries and blackberries growing at one time. I’ll be adding them to this seasons planting. Another go at strawberries. Last year, 2 berries total! Year before, 6 containers of unyielding fruit!!! I am not sure what happened with those 2 berries but I Am up for the challenge and ready with a twist!

So…who else loves fruit? Don’t mind the ornamental corn plant in the back ground. Those leaves are as rich and lush as it comes in The Jungle. Rather camera shy but I Am trusting that soon these photo ops become a joy. They have been in the family for quite some time and are thriving, as long as they remain in the house…The Twins, one day I’ll show you all how they lean but I’ll go ahead and tell you now that it was because they got put outside and cried they entire time and began leaning toward the front door. They were a shade tree for The Basils but very unhappy. So back inside they’ve been since this past Thanksgiving.

The fruit I’m referring to is Pepino Melon. It is named The SuperFruit due to the many health benefits. I call it SuperTasty because it is…Yummy!

Vitamins A*B*C*K Calcium, Potassium, Fiber, Iron, Copper and Protein. All the makings of a healthy immune system and cardiovascular health.

Of course, I’ve already removed the seeds because they will be in God’s Earth soon. A little late night snack. The Pepino Melon has a flavor of cucumber, pear and I inhaled a hint of apple…like a sweet cucumber indeed. My first time trying one and I Am pleased. I so appreciate trying new things…growing new things…learning new things…the simple pleasure of experiencing new things. No routine. No schedule. We don’t do same old same old. Spontaneity!!! Moments In Time. I’m all smiles when he says “It’s time to ride baby”. We’ve been having a lot of those lately & more to come. I’m excited about what God is doing & as “nervous as a tick” ( I may or may not have just made that up) Mr explained that it’s possible, so that’s good enough for me. We will just call it a Coleyism…now back to the story!!!

The Melon & Enjoying New Things…Life will always have it’s ups and downs. That’s not where we are to dwell…We Dwell In His Presence. So that we are at peace & safe…regardless of the weapon.

We Speak Life…We Live Life…We thank The LifeGiver. Remember there’s something about the power of love and God loves you receive that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding Vetta

What a wonderful day indeed…In relax mood! Captain Kirk is up to his shenanigans again and I smell like blessings…like always! God’s Word says I Am blessed & I Am anointed to receive & I receive His Word… I Am Blessed! I struck more gold, black gold this evening while enjoying the garden. God’s Earth…I just smile when I dig deep and spot those worms wiggling. My compost game has been on point lately. I Am proud of me. We’ve got russet potatoes coming, sweet potatoes, corn, some black beans and green peas…all from seed. No evidence of the other seeds I sowed, no okra, or pumpkin, no summer greens. But I Am has blessed me to trust what true patience is. And my husband is a man of great patience, so I’ve followed his example & his instructions and he is an excellent teacher. Is it easy? NO. Is it worth it? YES. And it is worth it, because it pleases The Father. AND WE SHOULD LET EVERYTHING WE DO BE PLEASING TO THE FATHER…I prepared my new herb bed out back and I’ll sow seed tomorrow morning…all the good stuff. I’ve shared some of the herbs out front that survived the winter and wintered the storms. We also have basil, green onions, sweet onions & the aloe are multiplying just as God’s Word mentioned. I’ve got some goodies in the cupboards, some favorites in the window sil, a catalog of heirloom seeds and a ready hand.

A few of the inside plants have decided all on their own that they’d prefer to be outside…so outside they are and soon to be in the ground.

Then there’s a small miracle…a lovely experiment yours truly did last year that I thought didn’t make it. I grew ginger and mint together in a container. At some point it was thriving, then it wanted out of the container. I buried it deep because it was in the 30’s. Well bless The Lord that being buried is exactly what we need at times because when it’s time to reveal, more is well with our souls and prayerfully we aren’t who we were.

Always Transforming…each and every day there is potential for growth! Vetta received another small miracle, my husband put all of his tools INSIDE of the shed!

Check out the lavender…an updated photo. The blooms are intoxicating. One can get lost in the richness of this hue of royalty. It hurt a little as I harvested for oil and tea. Both the lavender and my ginger mint have me happy and excited about the next experiment.

Showing up for life and experiencing it all. Blessings Abounding Vetta

Thankful Thursday yet again…My husband took this for me. I’ll be honest, it’s not the easiest thing in the world to do the podcast or this blog. I am thankful that I don’t have to do it alone…thankful that my husband is right by my side..Thankful for his insight and the wisdom that he contributes in all that God is doing. I’ve been such a private person but someone said something about sharing is caring so I’m here for it all.

The excitement over sharing our God… Sharing how God has blessed our life… Caring for those God has placed in our life…and continually praying that people will have a ear to hear.

I’m excited about what God is doing! I want to invite you to tune in to the podcast. Coley Chronicles: All Things Real w/ Vetta on Spotify, Anchor, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast and other listening platforms as well.

Blessings Abounding & Don’t Forget To Drink Your Water…Vetta 💝

Italian Oregano…an easy add to your diet. An excellent source of fiber, vitamins K & E, iron, calcium and tryptophan. Tryptophan is a essential amino acid that helps produce a healthy sleep routine as well as boost your mood.

I absolutely love adding a few sprigs into a pot of…anything; Italian, Mediterranean or American. But for sure add them to your beans…yum yum good!

Diffuse in the bedroom to help sleep. My oregano tea does it every time I hear a cough coming from Mr…he doesn’t know what’s all in there, he just drinks it, feels better and then later gives me the look (lol). It helps in lowering blood pressure as well.

Place oregano in boiling water…steep for 2-3 minutes. Once you reach your desired flavor, simply strain & enjoy.

Of course, Vetta loves making oils…if you are using oregano oil to help in healing, be sure to mix in a 1:3 ratio with olive oil. Oregano oil is pungent as well as strong…And Ladies, a little oregano tea helps Vetta out with cramps…a little ginger, a drizzle of honey, a drop of lemon and lots of relief!

I’ll be doing some harvesting on this beauty…drying herbs kind of day and adding a sprig or two to my water.

Don’t Forget…Drink Up.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

A flowering plant of the mint family, lavender has biblical roots. Mary used lavender on baby Jesus and then anointed Jesus after the crucifixion when preparing Him for burial.

The color of royalty, a simple reminder of Who’s we are! Symbolizing purity, devotion, grace, serenity and love. The ultimate peace flower. Of course Vetta is blessed to have a plant just like her…an early bloomer that it is enjoyable late into the summer months. And who doesn’t enjoy lavender?

I’m blessed by all The Father has given us…I’ll used these blessed hands to make lavender oil. It’s a tried and true healing plant. Lavender has anti-inflammatory properties and helps heal minor burns & bites from our summer friendly bugs and mosquitoes. I’m running low on my tea blend and lavender has its place in that as well. It is bittersweet but those beautiful blooms have purpose and no worries, as we prune & cut back for purpose…the more we reap in the end and God will keep us.

A few drops in the diffuser or a small bouquet close by for a little spiritual healing from the anxieties and restlessness of the day. It’s not to late to add this beauty to your garden or let this be the start of your gardening journey. Our little beauty made it through the winter months but I’ve sowed new seed as well…

THAT’S IMPORTANT…SOWING SEED and your water, don’t forget to drink your water. Blessings Abounding, Vetta

The ideal companion for tomatoes, you want this beauty in your garden, not only does it make a bold statement, it’s fragrance is intoxicating and the flavor is intense. It helps reduce chronic inflammation and is full of vitamins and several other nutritional benefits. Purple basil loves the sun but it can easily be grown inside, just be sure to give it plenty of light if not growing your herb near a window for sunlight. It’s perfect for making scented oils and just as good in turning pizza night into a new experience. Use it in any dish that you make that is already bold in flavors and it’s perfect for jazzing up anything that is boring to the palette! Forget about your plug-ins if you do decide to grow this beauty inside…because your dwelling will be smelling is all I’ll say and you really want to experience it yourself.

As far as the subject of Powerhouses…we all have power within us and that power is The Power of God.

Use that power wisely and don’t forget to drink your water. Blessings Abounding, Vetta

My first time keeping a citronella plant year round…but she made it and through an unusually cold winter here in Florida, even had to come inside a couple of nights. Check out her blooms and the aroma is intoxicating. I just love gently rubbing my fingertips along the different herbs in the garden…and then the inhale. The citronella will definitely make you smile. Her twin is camera shy, as well as upset about the move (she’s going outback) because living across from the water ain’t living when those mosquitoes start living off you!

What a beautiful Palm Sunday!!! God is good & church was awesome. I cooked pot roast for dinner & used an entire package of mushrooms, as to avoid my husband’s meat, but of course when it’s falling apart like it was, it’s inevitable that you see a little on your plate and get caught up…but no worries, my crush is taking me walking later. As I’m walking, I’ll be thanking The Father for grace & favor!

I’m walking it out.

I’m walking it off.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

From the darkest of cupboards… to the Sun of God, we’ve got potatoes. We used the last of our spuds for Thanksgiving so this year I’ve succession planted so we eat year round, because who has time to be going to the store when we can just go out back!!!

And umm umm good!! Fat-free, cholesterol-free & low in sodium, they are a great filler for the day especially if you’re on a weight loss journey.

I just love potatoes, maybe because the potato is and always will be a symbol of love…remember that and don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Our Father in heaven Hallowed Be Your Name Your Kingdom Come Your Will be done on Earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors, and lead us not into temptation but Deliver Us from Evil, for yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen

Just Pray…that’s all I can think to do or ask. There is a fire in our home town of Panama City. It started on Friday. I happened to be in the area. It was challenging… traffic was challenging… people were challenging…The Atmosphere was challenging. But most days are. The residents have been through so much…same as the rest of the world, So many Still desperately trying to recover from Hurricane Michael. Folk refuse to stop sprinkling 19 around, all the while so many are still struggling to put their homes as well as their lives back together. These are the challenges that we all face…and we face them globally. Natural disasters occur so often that it makes one wonder if they are natural…but instead of the wondering…we must pray. whether it be face to face or side by side, on the phoneline or via text. On social media platforms or at the park and playground…we have got to get back to the business of prayer instead of just praying, about our business!!! You know, Our wants and needs…our “family future”… we are all connected…through Christ…and There is power in prayer…there is power when we pray for each other…So much power.

Colossians 4:2 says that we are to…continue in prayer and watch in the same with Thanksgiving!!!

With each of life’s tragedies we are prevy to there is a softening…of the heart. Tender Mercies just as The Father has given. Forgiveness and Healing flowing like banners of victory…and this is what manifests as The Father slowly begins to burn out all of the things that are hindering His people…distracting us, to be lead away into the wilderness…into the darkness and stinch of this earth. This is A Temporary Place…Eternity is Forever and Ever and Ever…with our Father…Where Nothing else matters. No worries…No fears…No trouble-No Where.

And when all the smoke clears, we need to remember to be as kind tomorrow as we were on yesterday and don’t forget to pray…every day and not just when things are upside down….these things…that are plots of the enemy…God can turn it all around. But we have got to be willing….each and every day to Just Pray…because after all He is our daily bread now don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

It’s been a rainy morning here in The Sunshine state…but quiet and peaceful. Listening to the birds conversate is always a delight. So many things on the to do list before we begin our travels…Why not get the day started with a delicious treat.

I love a good raw salad…soaking in raspberry vinegrette. loaded with spinach & cilantro…full of the sweetest red, yellow & orange peppers. Green olives for the bite. Cranberry for the next bite. Cucumber for hydration 😇

And because lunch is important, I sprinkled it with flaxseed and chia seeds…Now don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

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And when all the cherry blossoms had bloomed…

Our sweet sister, found herself in a familiar place…escaped and returned to peace, just as before.

Before this world became her life… Drained! Mishandled! Exhausted! Frenzied! Darkened!

But only for a moment and then His Marvelous Light. To be absent. To be present. Praise Jehovah!!!

So many questions and now all of the answers. The celebration. The destination. Bless The Father because He hears the humble cry.

In memory of Jeryln “Gee Gee” Coley

I am in a constant state of growing and learning. Suspended…Mid air in His Glory. My mind is expanding. My thoughts are neutral and The Holy Spirit is my guide. On my own I am nothing…a weakened vessel. Vulnerable. Frightened. Lost in a vast wilderness.

But God!!!

He is my strength.  I am His Noah. I am all the things that My Father has created me to be. A Perfect Imperfection, submitted to His Plan.

Created to abide in all of His Ways… sharing in goodness, extending in grace and experiencing love… experiencing God.

I am different than all others. I am unique…formed perfectly while yet in my mother’s womb & then born into this sin but only so that I might find my way, growing and learning to be more like Him…He…The Creator provides me with everything that I need to carry out His Plan.

The Holy Spirit is my peacemaker while experiencing this earthly walk…while journeying on my blessed path. I belong to my Maker. He is my owner. My ultimate and The Finisher of My Fate.

On last year I was given a assignment. I had to pray and I had to pray on Facebook. I tell you this…you better learn how to reach heaven on your own before you ever depend on another soul. I had folk in my inbox worried that I was having a nervous breakdown. Others just thought I was losing it… those people were right. I was losing lots of things but those were all the things that were weighing me down and tormenting my soul. I also did some major dump sessions. I did several with a Woman of God. The rest…you guessed it I had to do publicly. I’d do these on my Podcast, Coley Chronicles: All Things Real w Vetta. It was difficult but I had to get it out, we all do otherwise we are doing ourselves an injustice. Release is good. Crying is ok. It’s just an indicator that we are still alive and as long as we have breath we still have hope.

A part of the assignment was to see what people actually responded to…I mean after all how many folk actually read the post. Unfortunately I learned that all most do is hit the like button on a cute picture. I’ve said it before and I’ll continue to say it, I prefer prayer over likes. I’ve recently cleaned up my FB page and I trust that it’s full of prayer warriors.

But on today I want to share with you one thing that I did end up losing that still pains me. I lost a young lady that I was mentoring. She walked away from her mentorship all due to addiction. She was addicted to pain, after all that was all she had known. She once shared with me that God had already told her a woman was going to come into her life to help guide her and that the woman was going to be a tough one and be a prophet, I was like well here I am, let’s do this. For a while we did just that. I invited her into our home. She sat with me for hours as I worked in the garden. I poured into her like I had not done in years but it was because God had revealed to me that our time together would be short.

I used my resources to secure her decent housing at a decent price. I invested into a business she wanted to start, even came up with a name for the business. She had full access to me. I didn’t grant that to clients that I use to coach back in the day and they were paying me. She gave it all up for a male that had nothing to offer but sex and his hands around her throat. But all one can do when it comes to helping others at times is pray so I pray for her often.

On last year it was also revealed to me that a organization would be closing their doors soon. I offered on several occasions to try and help with the business but realized they didn’t want my help, so I pulled back. I even had a chance to offer a new location for the business but I was instructed to gauge their response to the structure and it was not one that I can say impressed them so I let the owner know and he put it on the market. It’s been totally restored and is gorgeous. I sometimes wonder if folk really know what a blessing is. If they fully understand what not despising small beginnings really means.

And here I am again, seeing what could possibly be another closure and all I can do is pray. Sometimes we have to just know what we know because God knows we will pray. Intercession is not for the weak… not for the selfish. You gotta pray regardless of how you feel. You’ve gotta pray without ceasing. When the world is stuck on and in the drama that it loves and craves…you gotta pray. When all seems to be falling apart, do what it is that we are required to do.

JUST PRAY!!!

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

New Year Blessings to all. I want to share a little experiment with you that my purpose partner and I did on last year. A major dump & a cleanse…we got rid of some things and did without some others. Let’s start with the microwave because let’s just be real, it’s enough radiation out there…we don’t need to come home to it as well. We also agreed to not have a television downstairs. Believe it or not at one point we had 5 televisions… anywho at some point early in the year I figured well let’s just hang a small one on the back wall just in case we have company and they want to watch tv. Well the truth is we don’t really have company and it’s not due to COVID… when and if we do I’d pray they come to engage with us. But nevertheless my husband mounted a TV and within days it was every so nicely laying on what was at one time a coffee bar…because we don’t drink coffee like. No damage to it at all and we still have it and we will be watching Judge Judy shortly. Most would say well the husband just didn’t know how to mount the tv correctly. Not the case my friends…I’ve watched this man hang drywall…even the ceilings by himself and we have several satisfied clients that can vouch that not one piece has ever fallen, so a little flat screen is not going to be a problem…or is it? See I told God that I wanted our home to be free of the distraction of the television on all the time and I meant it. I wanted to be fully engaged with my spouse and if we had company I wanted to be fully engaged with them. But sometimes we need a little help in keeping to things we’ve said…to people and to God. Oh and the microwave, let’s talk about that…with the quickness. We were slow getting the microwave out of the house. It was just to go outside by the road because I’m not into giving people things that I know are not good for them, after all would a true friend give you something that they themselves don’t use? Well one night something stayed in to long and literally burnt in the microwave and that was that. I say all that to say all this…Our downstairs is now our sanctuary. If you follow me on Instagram you already know we live in a small jungle lol. The crush told a friend that I have us eating plants and trees and I laughed so loud. But it’s mostly true. We pay close attention to what we put in our bodies these days. And I definitely grow what I can.

Yes, Down stairs is now our little haven. We only play music down stairs now and we carry on, letting laughter fill the room and we talk and are able to be fully engaged and because there is no microwave… when it’s dinner time those talks are everything. And I dance y’all…all around the house and I have plenty of room because we have literally given away almost all of our furniture. We basically only have the pieces that we have purchased since we have been married and trust me, we had lots. I had wall to wall furniture and then here comes my crush adding to it lol but no more because I now enjoy the space more than the stuff that was taking up the space and it takes space to dance. Sometimes I twirl around just so thankful to God for healing me because I no longer have verigo and I can spin as much as I please. A neighbor once asked what I was listening to while working in the garden and I told her It was Tasha Cobb but nonetheless I made it clear to her that she might hear some drop it like it’s hot coming through those soundbars because that’s just how I am…I’m real. One minute I’m doing my praise dance and the next…well let’s just say praise is what I do. But because I’ve always loved music and I’ve always loved to dance…I also dance for and with my husband. Y’all should try it sometime.

I’m strong on my own but with him by my side, I no longer have to stay in beast mode and trust me, he is strong enough for us both and this is why our marriage has lasted… because of his strength and because of his promise. This is the first and only man that has kept his promises to me. And this is why I love him. We use to dance together as teenagers and now we are blessed to dance together for the rest of our lives and all because we waited… Hear me loud and clear, there’s something about waiting!

Personally, I was able to release so much in 2020 that I felt ok but my friends I’m here to tell you when it comes to release and healing, there’s always more. We never arrive!!! And let me be clear healing is not for the faint, because in order to properly heal one must revisit everything and everyone who has been a part of the pain. We also decided no WiFi, we used a MyFi instead. No cable either just a antenna. We live across the street from the water so sometimes tv is good other times it is not. But remember, distractions come in different ways. So when it works it works. We don’t need a television to keep us entertained, entertainment comes in all forms.

With that being said I’m going to end up for the day. I have a session in a few with one of my newest mentors, we are going to be praying during this mentoring session because I asked a few folk questions last year and haven’t heard back from them y’all…go figure. So I decided maybe they don’t have a answer for me and I’m working on being ok with that but it’s been difficult because of what I thought I meant to them. Life is funny y’all and even when it’s not you better learn to laugh way more than you cry.

As the year was ending, I asked The Lord for some answers and it has been confirmed 3 times from trustworthy voices in my life that I have to wait. And if I have to wait y’all have to wait… for my next entry that is.

So until next time…Always Remember and Never Forget, we are all growing and like plants and trees as my husband says…We all do well with light love & liquid so don’t forget to drink your water.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Hello World, I have been super busy with mentoring but I’m back…And just in time for Freedom’s Eve. I’m so excited about what God is doing…how He has been using me to bless others. Working for The Creator is by far the best job in the world but let’s be clear, it’s work but it’s worth the work.

I often tell my mentees that “Freedom Ain’t Free”. I have one in particular that thinks I know all the answers…oh sweetie If Only. It’s a humbling experience to have someone like her in my life. We hold many other titles between us and are connected in more ways than one but we both know that the covenant connection…the divine connection is most important and because this young prophet is also our Goddaughter that solidifies that nothing else matters if we need to connect when it’s a spiritual matter.

I see her coming back from a trip…and I’ll need to be here for her is what I feel the Lord saying. So I’m preparing myself and I’ve let her Goddaddy know we’re about to level up in prayer again and of course Mr Coley stay ready for battle, that’s the Baltimore in him lol. He also reminded me that it’s only so much we can do. When I asked God for instructions on how to proceed with her mentorship for next year, the answer was to Just Pray and that’s exactly what I will continue to do…Praying that she begins to say what she sees…praying that she trust what she feels. Praying that she understands that the journey is often times difficult but the rewards are great. I pray that as her gift makes room for her, she walks in to those rooms boldly, confidentiality & courageously. I pray that the blessings I spoke over her marriage, as I performed the union are manifesting each and every day as long as they put in the work. And those two little blessings they have, I pray that she understands that that’s all the confirmation she needs. I also pray birthday blessings over her…she’s a new year baby y’all so after she pops the bottle and toast to New Beginnings in 2022, I pray she Always Remember how much she means to me and Never Forgets to drink her water…

She doesn’t know it but she’s my hero…pouring into her has blessed me in ways that can’t even be articulated and it enables to her to grow as she should but what one must always understand is that as we pour out we must be refilled. I’ve been able to let her see what peace is all about…but there’s always more. So I pray a birthday prayer, that this peace that I’ve found not escape her and that prayer will always be a gift I offer to her but I also pray that she has been faithful to have a ear to hear…what I’ve been saying to her but most importantly what God is trying to tell her.

Birthday Blessings to my little Wild Child 🌹

Today was a good day and one day at a time is the best way to go…

I’ve been so busy lately that I absolutely forgot about another gift. Well actually it belongs to my husband…but he doesn’t mind sharing, at least not when it comes to me. I was deeply reminded of this on today, while going through old photos I ran across our first birthday trip to Georgia.. to the mountains. Spectacular scenery, mountains for miles, delicacies for days and those walks… you know we love our walks. Of course we opted out of the guided tours and did what any newly wed couple should do…We found our own way. It was a beautiful time. I can remember trying to record our outdoor adventure for the little ones and posting it on YouTube for them. That’s where Coley Chronicles was born… September of 2015. We had the girls with us for the summer of our wedding so there was no real honeymoon so this actually served as both a birthday trip and honeymoon and it was lovely. I say that as I vividly remember the moment like it was yesterday. I was busy taking photos and at a point I just got lost in the wonder of it all. I could feel my husband step back and just watch me. He stepped back and gave me that moment to take in all that God was revealing to me and it was the most selfless thing that anyone had ever done for me. That’s who he is, my husband that is.

My Lord, the girls forbid us from the helicopter ride so we remained grounded & walked our trail for what seemed like hours…and then we found our spot, it was just beyond the waterfall… that little stream of water changed us both that day as we sat talking about the future with light whispers of the past….to be one with nature is to be one with self & that my friends is the key to a peaceful life.

I’ve rambled way past the gift…our tripod is ready for action. Creating content for several projects simultaneously has been no easy task but I’m enjoying every new challenge. The journal is going to be awesome and the “brady bunch” album is coming along. I love making memories with this man.

1:30am peace out 🙏🏽🙏🏽

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Picture This:

Grabbing the picnic basket & filling it with goodies… heading to our favorite park in the city. Good vibes & good company & good memories. These are the skies we stood under and made The Promises.

It’s so easy to make plans. Even easier to make promises… Just be sure that even if you have to cancel plans, try hard to always keep your promises.

So much has changed at the park since 2015. At the waters edge, the Palms that we took photos are no more. The pavilion where everyone gathered is gone. What remains is the gazebo where we stood and made those promises… A beautiful mermaid had been added to a private garden area. It’s quite prophetic but that’s another story lol.

Much like our lives, things have been gained & things have been removed but The Coley’s are still standing & still keeping the promises and The Promise Keeper is still having His Way!

After all, His Way is the only way to go… Yahweh!!!

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

So on today, I did a thing…I went to a farmers market to purchase okra. Yes, I know the question could be asked…”why is she buying things that she already grows?” I’ll get to that but first let me point out that the okra pictured on the right are from our garden while those in the bag came from the local market.

Okra once they begin to produce will produce everyday. Yes, you can eat from this plant every day if you like and most days I do. With weather and seasonal challenges we are down to only one plant which is still enough for us.

What is pictured is what I harvested this morning and I still have two more mornings to harvest before Thanksgiving Dinner.

So what’s the problem?

No problems… Just points!

Most go to the farmers market for freshness and while I have no real complaints over the quality of the food just look for yourself at the difference when you can go right outside your door and harvest fresh everyday…IF YOU LEARN TO GROW YOUR OWN FOOD!!!

Below is a photo of the mornings harvest minus the collards… they are taking a bath and require privacy!!! The harvest was small but enough for us. Enough sweet potatoes for a pie. Enough potato for potato salad & a few mashed potatoes for a special request. Those okra that I grew are enough for me and by the time I harvest more there will be more than enough to share. And the jar of Vetta’s Pepper Sauce goes into our little turkey to make her sing!!! Fresh Bell Peppers & Onion for the dressing and a few other side dishes and it’s a done deal… DON’T OVER DO IT!!!

Happy Thanksgiving to you all. I pray that God’s Blessings be forever yours and that God gives you the wisdom on how to offer guidance to each and every person that’s assigned to you. As well, I pray that they receive! I’m so thankful for each and every person that reads my blog and I pray that as I share a little of myself it blesses someone. Always Remember and Never Forget to be thankful for what you have.

Blessings Abounding, Vetta

Always Remember that your purpose is greater than the pain.

And Never Forget that the pain is made bearable because of the purpose.

Our Father is not merciless… He has gone before us, prepared The Way…He is our Light, as well The Path we should take.

Who’s Footsteps Shall Carry Us?

Who’s Word Shall Sustain Us?

There Is No Greater Love…

The Time Is Near.

Blessings Abounding,
Vetta 💕🦋💕

Just because a thing appears stable doesn’t mean that it is. From the distance all seems to be good. But upon closer examination the discovery can certainly be a thing that shakes one to the core.

But Always Remember,

The shaking that you yourself once felt.

And Never Forget,

Some of the most beautiful things come out of the ugliness all around us.

Blessings Abounding

💕Vetta 💕

There will be people in our lives that will clam up on us…for whatever reason is not important in the scheme of things.

What is important is our response.

Yes, it is hurtful and certainly grieves the spirit. Managing our own pain as we attempt to not not lash out or retaliate is no easy task. But it is achievable. Ask The Holy Spirit into that situation and this time let Him be your guide.

When we make the unfortunate attempt at planning out our lives it can lead to disappointments and set backs. But that doesn’t mean it’s over.

We are soldiers & warriors, triumphant in battle because of our Father and there is no failure in Him.

Take a minute but as soon as the smoke clears…get back to what it was that God had planned. It always works out better in the end.

Blessings Abounding,

💕 Vetta 💕

Always Remember that you are beautiful.

You are that way because of what is on the inside of you.

Everything that God made IS ALL GOOD.

Those wide eyes are full of vISiON.

That wide nose smells all of the fragrance that is PLEASING.

Those ears… They’ve HEARD IT ALL!!!

Those funny looking feet keep you grounded.

The chocolate that is your skin…is the skin that you are in, wear it well.

I could go on but I am sure you can relate by now.

WE ARE TO EMBRACE WHO GOD CREATED!!!

AND REMEMBER WE ALL DO WELL WITH LIGHT, LOVE & LIQUID SO DON’T FORGET TO DRINK YOUR WATER.

Blessings Abounding,

Vetta 🦋

NEVER WORRY OVER FORGOTTEN PHONE CALLS AND LOST INVITATIONS. FOLKS INVITE WHOM THEY DESIRE TO BE AMONG & PEOPLE CAN OFTEN TIMES GET DISTRACTED AND WHOLE HEARTEDLY FORGET ABOUT YOU.

THERE IS NOT A PLACE ON GOD’S GREEN EARTH THAT YOU ARE CALLED TO BE THAT HE WON’T GET YOU TO…

NO MAN, WOMAN OR DEMON FROM HELL CAN TAKE YOUR PLACE AT THE TABLE GOD HAS PREPARED.

SO CONTINUE IN ALL THAT THE FATHER HAS CALLED YOU TO DO. BE CONFIDENT & SURE IN ALL THAT YOU DO SO THAT IT IS PLEASING TO GOD. LOOKING FOR APPLAUSE FROM THIS WORLD WILL CAUSE YOU TO LOSE FOCUS.

REMEMBER WE LIVE IN A LOST & FALLEN WORLD…

ARE WE TO CONFORM???

OR ARE WE TO STAND ON HIS WORD EVEN IF IT MEANS TO STAND ALONE???

ALL OF OUR ANSWERS ARE IN HIS WORD.

AND ON THAT NOTE: I’VE BEEN READING UP ON SOME OTHER THINGS AND HAVE COME TO REALIZE THAT YOU’LL ALWAYS HAVE THOSE THAT SIT BACK AND WATCH YOU. THEY WILL NOT SUPPORT… THEY WILL NOT COMMENT… THEY WILL NOT SHARE BUT TRUST ME, THEY ARE LOOKING AND FOR ME, IT’S ALL ABOUT THE VIEWS.

Blessings Abounding

Vetta
🙏🏽💕🙏🏽

What an excellent start to this Thought Full Tuesday!

A very special couple donated this Hibiscus to us on this morning.

I just love this particular plant.

I AM currently propagating several w/ a lovely bold yellow hue & the excitement over this is UP THERE!!! ALTHOUGH I LOVE THE YELLOW I AM HOPING FOR A DIFFERENT COLOR. REGARDLESS IT’S ALL ABOUT THE CHALLENGE. THE TIME & CARE REQUIRED FOR A ALREADY ESTABLISHED PLANT IS HIGH, SO JUST IMAGINE…

A STARTER PLANT OR RESCUED PLANT IS ALWAYS A CHALLENGE FAR BEYOND EVEN THAT, BUT THAT’S WHAT WE DO…WE BRING DEAD THINGS BACK TO LIFE.

HOW?

BY SPEAKING LIFE TO THEM, IT’S PLAIN & SIMPLE.

FOR INSTANCE, IF YOU SEE A PERSON THAT YOU LOVE YOU SPEAK TO THEM… KINDLY & SOFTLY LIKE A WHISPER. ALL OF NATURE UNDERSTANDS A WHISPER.

DON’T YOU LIKE FOLK YOU LIKE TALKING NICE TO YOU?

NOTHING MUCH COMES FROM A SCREAM EXCEPT ANOTHER SCREAM!!!

ANYwho, I WAS ABLE TO GET A NICE LITTLE BOTTLE TO BRING HER HOME IN. SHE’S SITTING OUT FRONT FOR ALL THE WORLD TO SEE AS SHE GROWS.

AND FOR THE ZOOM EXPERTS, YES THAT’S A HENIKEN BOTTLE. DON’T ACT LIKE Y’ALL WASN’T ONCE DEEP INTO “SOMETHING”

EXACTLY LIKE THIS OR EVEN WORSE!!!

SO CHILL, IT’S ALL GOOD!

FOCUS!!!

YOUR ENERGY SHOULD ALWAYS BE ON THE OUTCOME. THE BEGINNINGS IN LIFE ARE OFTEN UNSIGHTLY, ESPECIALLY TO THOSE WHO LACK VISION. BUT STICK AROUND, I’VE GOT MUCH MORE TO SHOW YOU.

JUST TAKE A SIP…OF WATER THAT IS. I CAN SENSE TENSION IN THE AIR OVER A LITTLE OLE BOTTLE… AND PLEASE, NO MESSAGES ABOUT “HOW US DRINKING OVER HERE YANDER”.

WE LOVE THE LORD!!!

HE LOVES US RIGHT BACK!!!

RELIGION HAS SO MANY BOUND… YOU KNOW LIKE BONDED… TO NOTHINGNESS & THAT’S WHY YOU CAN’T GROW ANYTHING.

BYE NOW,

WE’VE GOT A DAY PLANNED FULL OF LIGHT, LOVE & LIQUID.

TO THOSE WHO LACK…

NEVERMIND… just FIND PEACE!!!

BLESSINGS ABOUNDING

Vetta

😘🧐🙏🏽💙😘🧐

Don’t you just LOVE gifts?

Doesn’t even matter the SIZE…

A GIFT IS A GIFT IS A GIFT INDEED.

BUT SOME GIFTS ARE PRICELESS.

IT’S SUCH A BIG DEAL FOR ME TO FIND A PLACE TO DISPLAY GIFTS AROUND THE HOUSE. FIRST THE PERSON THAT GIVES THE GIFT HAS TO HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS.

FUNNY STORY,

I ONCE HAD A “FRIEND” ACTUALLY STOP BY UNANNOUNCED & UNEXPECTEDLY. FOR ME THAT IS A NO NO UNLESS IT’S ANY TYPE OF EMERGENCY. anyWHO, WHEN I ARRIVED HOME THAT EVENING MY HUSBAND HAD THE ITEMS SITTING OUT FOR ME AND I DO BELIEVE HE THOUGHT I’D BE EXCITED FOR THEM BUT I COULDN’T GET PAST A “FEELING”.

IN HIS DEFENSE, WE WERE JUST MARRIED AND HE DIDN’T REALLY KNOW WHO MY “FRIENDS” WERE… BY NAME. I KNEW FOR SURE THOUGH THAT THE NAME HE WAS SAYING, LETS JUST SAY DIDN’T MATCH THE GIFT AND I STILL HAD THE “FEELING”.

LONG STORY SHORT, WE SAT DOWN AND TALKED SO THAT HE CAN GIVE ME WHAT I NEEDED TO DISTINGUISH WHO HAD GIVEN THE GIFTS.

Didn’t take Long, Because it didn’t take Long and

AS BAD AS IT HURT, I HAD TO THROW THE GIFT OUT AND LET ME BE CLEAR IT WASN’T JUST ONE ITEM, THERE WERE SEVERAL really really NICE items that were apart of the entire gift itSELF, BUT UPON FURTHER EXAMINATION AND DISCUSSION THE GIFTS BECAME GARBAGE!!! ONCE THEY WERE OUT OF OUR SPACE MY WHOLE “ATTITUDE” CHANGED BECAUSE I WAS UNNERVED AT THE WHOLE thing.

THAT WAS OVER 5 YEARS AGO, MY HUSBAND NOW KNOWS EXACTLY WHO’S WHO IN MY LIFE AND WHERE I STAND IN ALL OF MY relationSHIPS.

HE KNOWS BECAUSE I KEEP HIM UPDATED!!! THAT’S JUST A LITTLE THING WE DO…WE CHECK IN!!!

BACK TO MY GIFT

THIS IS A GIFT FROM MY SISTER. ITS VERY SPECIAL TO ME, SO MUCH SO THAT IT ACTUALLY IS SITTING ON A VINTAGE PIECE THAT MY HUSBAND & I INHERITED. IT’S A BEAUTIFUL PIECE ITSELF & SERVES AS A REMINDER TO ALWAYS BE COURAGEOUS. TO REMEMBER THE POWER I HAVE THROUGH CHRIST JESUS & TO ALWAYS BE HELPFUL TO THOSE THAT NEED HELP BUT TO NEVER AGAIN IN LIFE WASTE TIME ON NONSENSE.

YES, I GET ALL THAT & MORE FROM A LITTLE OLE POT STAND and believe it Or not, THERE IS MORE… THERE IS ALWAYS MORE MY DEAR.

BUT A WISE MAN ONCE TOLD ME… DON’T NOBODY CARE ABOUT ALL THAT!!!

ITS TRUE, FOLK DON’T REALLY WANT TO HEAR ABOUT THE GOOD STUFF. BUT THEY BRIGHT EYED & BUSY TAILED FOR THE NEXT. AND BY NEXT I MEAN… WELL YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN AND IF YOU DON’T JUST THANK GOD!

And ONE quick shout OUT FOR NO MORE DRAMA AND LET’S JUST LEAVE THAT RIGHT WHERE EVER IT IS NOW.

THE FIDDLE LEAF WAS A RESCUE, I SO WISH I HAD A BEFORE PIC. SHE WAS A HOT MESS BUT ALL OF OUR HOUSE PLANTS ARE RESUES. I AM VERY GOOD AT BRINGING THINGS BACK TO LIFE AND NURTURING THEM SO THAT THEY THRIVE AS WELL AS SURVIVE.

GOOGLE SAYS THAT THE FIDDLE LEAF PURIFIES YOUR HOMES AIR WHILE LOOKING STYLISH…REMINDS ME OF ME!!!

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

ISN’T SHE GRAND?

AND YES, SHE HAS ALREADY HAD HER WATER TODAY!!!

WHAT ABOUT YOU?

HAVE YOU HAD ENOUGH WATER TODAY?

REMEMBER WE ARE LIKE PLANTS & WE ALL DO WELL WITH LIGHT, LOVE & LIQUID SO DON’T FORGET TO DRINK YOUR WATER LOVES.

And always

TRUST YOUR FEELINGS!

BLESSINGS ABOUNDING,

Vetta

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Have you ever diserned when a person is acting?

FOLKS,

ACT like they ACT

WHERE THEY ACT AT!!!

please catch that..

SEE

The Word says

He that WAITS upon

The Lord SHALL reNEW STRENGTH WITHIN THEM.

and that’s good

ENOUGH FOR US…

To be able to WAIT on what He has, be satisfied with what we HAVE & STAND STRONG REGARDLESS…

That’s why it’s important to LEAVE people right where they are to act out their lIeS…I meant LIVES!

anyWho, just be grateFULL THAT

YOU ARE FREE

BREATH

THANK GOD

NOW GO

LETTING GOD’S WIND BLOW YOU IN THE DIRECTION OF YOUR PURPOSE.

RELAX & LET THINGS COME TO YOU

NATURALLY.

In the meantime, Check out our Queen Corn, READY TO go in the ground. Corn is symbolic of spiritual goodness as well as a symbol of fertility & rebirth.

It’s important that

WE ONLY PLANT IN FERTILE GROUND.

ARE YOU ON GOOD GROUND?

And for the ones that don’t like corn…this isn’t for you but stick around, Something that suits your

FANCY IS BOUND TO POP UP.

NOW REMEMBER

JUST LIKE OUR GARDENS WE ALL DO WELL WITH LIGHT, LOVE & LIQUID…

NOW DON’T FORGET TO DRINK YOUR WATER LOVES.

🙏🏽Vetta 🙏🏽

WE

WITH

all

OUR

DIFFERENT FAITHS

EXIST

EACH WITH ONES ON

MEASURE.

LET

us

BE KIND IN

our

RENDERINGS

OF

JUDGEMENTS

OH YE OF LITTLE FAITH

SPEAK

OF

YOUR DESIRES

TO OUR LORD, WHILE BEING PATIENT TO RECEIVE.

LET HOPE RISE IN YOU ACCORDING TO YOUR FAITH

MAY YOU SEE THE BEAUTY OF HIS CREATION IN THE REFLECTION OF HIS MOON.

AND THEN THE SUN BY DAY REVEALS THE SPLENDOR OF ALL YOU DESIRE.

TAKE IT IN.

ANOTHER…

DEEP BREATHS

THIS IS YOUR REALITY!

THIS IS YOUR FAITH AND HIS WILL THROUGH CHRIST JESUS CONCERNING YOU.

HOLD STEADY

STAND FIRM

MARVEL

AT THE COMING OF HIS

SALVATION.

AND

REMEMBER

WE ARE EACH OUR OWN

CONSUMING FIRE .

BE MINDFUL OF HOW YOU TREAT PEOPLE & DON’T LET LOOKS DECEIVE YOU…

OR BLIND YOU!!!

OF COURSE, WE ALL AUTOMATICALLY LOOK AT THINGS WITH THE NATURAL EYE BUT WHAT IS IT THAT YOU ARE SEEING?

AND WHEN YOU LOOK AT A THING…WHY IS IT THAT YOU ARE EVEN LOOKING AT IT?

WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DESIRE TO DISCOVER AS YOU GAZE UPON ANOTHER.

THERE IS A LINE… AND A NOT SO FINE ONE BETWEEN

OBSERVATIONS

&

INSPIRATION

as APPOSED TO

distain & judgeMENt or

tHe Look Good LOOK

LOOK CHILD…

WE DOING WHAT WE DO

ANY WHO.

I’D LIKE TO THINK WE ALL KNOW WHO’S WHO IN OUR LIVES, BUT THIS IS NOT ALWAYS THE CASE.

YOU HAVE TO REALLY REALLY TRUST GOD IN ALL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. I SAY THIS BECAUSE OFTEN TIMES, WE ARE NOT ALWAYS IN THE RIGHT SEASON TO DEAL WITH WHAT HAPPENS. AND WHEN IT HAPPENS, BECAUSE IT’S GOING TO HAPPEN, LIFE THAT IS. JUST REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU disCOVER WHY A PERSON DecideS TO BE AsSociated WITH YOU & tHAT reASon NO longER exIts, wHen thIs

rEVEals ITself

DO NOT fREt

This is when you have to

ReMIND yOURSelf

That’s

GOD’S BUSINESS

NOT mIne.

alSO thIS wHeN 1 mUst B mindFUL OF THINGS

little things like a look or a odor, perhaps a gesture…there will always be something that you can see when one

BEcomes famiLIAR

YOU KNOW HOW WE ARE AROUND FAMILY

LET IT

ALL HANG OUT…

Lord, please help us…

We’ve got to do Better

EVERYBODY THAT ACT LIKE FAMILY… IS JUST LIKE FAMILY AND YOU LOVE THEM JUST THE SAME.

AND REMEMBER

WE ALL DO WELL WITH LIGHT, LOVE & LIQUID…

NOW DON’T FORGET TO DRINK YOUR WATER LOves

Blessings After Blessings,

Vetta

🙏🏽

There’s much to be SAID about silver spoons… and being born with ONE in the MOUTH!!!

FIRST OFF..

YOU WERE BORN!!!

HALLELUJAH!!!

HALLELUJAH!!!

When we are born we know nothing about Spoons… but we know about hunger.

IF

I AM hungry

&

The Meal REQUIRES a spoon…

I AM GOING TO PICK UP A SPOON… DOESN’T REALLY MATTER WHICH ONE.

Even

THE DIRTY SPOON CAN BE WASHED & USED!!!

And YES, THE OTHER SPOONS ARE SMALL… ALL THIS MEANS IS YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE IN SMALLER BITES BUT YOUR PORTION IS STILL YOUR PORTION, SO TAKE AS MUCH TIME AS YOU NEED TO COMPLETE YOUR PORTION & BE GRATEFUL THAT YOU HAVE A PORTION.

Unfortunately

THERE ARE FOLKS THAT WILL LITERALLY WATCH YOU STARVING AND TURN THEIR BACK ON YOU, NOT DARING TO SHARE THEIR PORTION, NOW THIS IS HURTFUL BUT REMEMBER hurt FOLKS hurt OTHER FOLKS. THESE PEOPLE ARE USUALLY IN SO MUCH INTERNAL PAIN THAT THEY THEMSELVES MAY VERY WELL

BE satisfied

WITH JUST THE POPCYCLE STICK PORTION, YES THE POPCYCLE stick IN THE BOWL OF DIRT… did you know that this can be used as well…

BY ANY MEANS

NECESSARY

WASH IT & EAT OR STARVE…

AND PLEASE TRY TO STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT little old silver spoons…did you know that the silver mines are easy Access compared to GOLD MINES and as the saying goes,

THINGS THAT ARE EASILY ACCESSIBLE AREN’T REALLY OF MUCH VALUE!!!!!!!

BUT THE GOLD!!!

THE SHIFTING…

THE PLACE IT COMES FROM.

RATHER THE WOODEN SPOONS THAT OUR ANCESTORS MADE?

WOW JUST WOW!!!

SOME FOLK, TO GOOD FOR THOSE WOODEN SPOONS… PERHAPS TO MUCH OF A REHEARSED REMINDER OF POVERTY?

I meant SLaVery… SORRY

THEY WERE KINGS & QUEENS MY DEAR…

beFore ALL OF this here!! ID BE SO HONORED TO LEARN ALL IT TAKES TO CREATE SUCH BEAUTY. A PIECE OF ART THAT COULD FEED ONE IS A POWERFULLY BEAUTIFUL THING.

I’ve much more to disest within this all and I

STAND BY

WHAT I SEE

WHICH ENABLES ME TO SEE MORE

ANOTHER THING

A CLOSED MOUTH DON’T GET FEED…SO I WILL CONTINUE TO USE MY VOICE…

REGARDLESS OF A FEELING.

and if those aren’t

ENOUGH

Spoons

HOW’S THIS FOR YOU???

p.s.

STOP LOOKING

D

O

W

N

ON PEOPLE

LITTLE people!!!

AND FOR THOSE THAT LIKE TO

“look up”

AT PEOPLE LIKE THEY CRAZY…

I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THE BLOOD…

WE HAVE GOT TO DO BETTER.

Bound Because of The Bond

BE CAREFUL WHO YOU BOND WITH. IT CAN BE DETRI……MENTAL!!!

WHEN WE FORM A BOND WITH ANOTHER IT CAN BE DIFFICULT TO DESTINGUISH SOMETIMES…

BETWEEN

THE GOOD & THE BAD

YOU SEE THINGS

YOU HEAR THINGS

YOU SENSE THINGS

AND ON AND ON AND ON…

BUT DON’T STRESS YOURSELF MUCH OVER WHO YOU CAN TRUST.

A PERSON I LOVE, USE TO OFTEN SAY…

I TRUST GOD!!!

I FEEL IT TODAY THE SAME I FELT IT WHEN I FIRST HEARD IT AND THAT’S BEEN 20 YEARS AGO AT LEAST.

WISE WORDS

WORDS OF WISDOM

PEARLS

AND BY THE WAY

CHECK OUT WHO YOU ARE

BONDED TO

BONDED TOO

BONDED TWO

By the way, the piece my husband is helping me work on is a part of the

Blue in the Back Project we are working on together.

It’s coming along nicely!!!

We are so grateful on today…

My husband and I have been in deep meditation with our Lord.

It’s not a word for the feeling one receives when they have been deep in God.

HIS TOUCH

HIS WHISPERS

The Things He reveal to us.

Nothing feels

BETTER THAN THIS.

IT is beyond amazing in which the ways are that

The Lord Speaks…

If only we could See

If only we could Hear

Oh, The Goodness of God

And oh how,

He Loves Us

And how

He wants Us

to

Love ONE ANOTHER

GOD WANTS US, HIS PEOPLE TO,

FORGIVE

THOSE

WHO HURT US

HIS PEOPLE

and

Remember

The reason they

ACT LIKE THAT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE FOCUSING ON THE WRONG THINGS…..

NOW HAVE WE NOT ALL BEEN GUILTY…

BEEN GUILTY OF IT ALL

AT SOME POINT!!!

ON SOME LEVEL!!!

THAT’S WHY YOU SEE IN LUKE 23:34

INSTRUCTIONS TO

FORGIVENESS

BECAUSE THINGS ARE GOING TO HAPPEN. WE ARE GOING TO BE HURT, JEALOUS, ENVIOUS, JUDGEMENTAL AND ALL THAT IS IN BETWEEN.

SO GROW UP!!!

LEARN TO TAKE THE GOOD WITH THE BAD.

LEARN TO LOVE, LET GO AND THEN LOVE SOME MORE.

POINT BLANK PERIOD!!!

🔥💙🔥💙🔥💙🔥💙🔥

LOVE ONE ANOTHER

💙🔥💙🔥💙🔥💙🔥💙

Vetta

#allthingsreal

$coleychronicles20

It is a hard task…

To recognize the HURT

TO SEE THE PAIN

TO FEEL THE SORROW

OF THOSE WHO YOU KNOW

BUT OH THE AGONY WHEN THEY ARE THOSE WE LOVE.

Vetta 🦋